I am loser. I now learn that take pushy suggests and that online class is not really effective for me. I am just angry that I may be appears to be a failure or not successful to other people. What the hack does it means to be successful? I don’t feel bad about dropping the class because I know it is not work for me but all suddenly I am a disappointment to everyone in my head. Sigh.
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Success means different things for different people. Some people make millions each year, but are still unhappy. Despite this, the outside world might see them as successful, even though they themselves don’t feel that way. Being successful does not necessarily equate to feeling fulfilled. The only one who can qualify and define success in your life is yourself. Maybe going after the things that make you feel fulfilled instead would help you out. It might take some exploring.
I can understand the pressures of society getting to someone . You are not a loser though. Dropping that class was maybe a good thing, because it sounds like it wasn’t making you feel very fulfilled in your life. Maybe it has made room for the one thing that will make you happy. I hope you find something that does.
You are a disappointment to everyone in your head. Maybe you should evict those taking up space in your head. The only person that has any business inside your head is you. What you appear to be to yourself is what matters now.
The world judges because it is our nature to judge but what others think they see doesn’t change what we truly are unless we allow it. I myself used to hear everyone talking about me in my head as I walked down the street. I knew they were all looking at me and saying mean things. I couldn’t go outside without covering myself completely. A lot of what helps us with these situations is understanding ourselves and these situations as well. People are more likely not judging you. It’s most likely that they are just walking past us barely noticing us while we obsess about what they are thinking. Realizing thus has helped me out, as well as learning to distract my mind by thinking of something else.