Yes, I am lost thank you for noticing

Maybe the real question is…

are there ANY men out there who would “fall in love” with a woman, want to be with her and only her, stay faithful and loyal, be kind, caring and look after her when she wants it (but not in an overly protective or controlling way), and would be supportive of her and her lifestyle, not act jealous if she has platonic male friends (with whom she maintains firm boundaries), who won’t insult her just because they’re in a bad mood, who doesn’t rely on alcohol, drugs, or unnecessary mind-numbing medication to get through life (not including people who are required to take meds), who doesn’t spend hours of their time fantasizing over women who aren’t her, who isn’t addicted to p**n, who isn’t someone who says, “I am a nice guy and I treat women well!” but is actually cold-hearted and/or abusive or manipulative, who isn’t hung up on past lovers, who doesn’t flirt with other people while they’ve claimed to be in a committed relationship with one woman, who doesn’t have “dark secrets” of things they’ve done that would be criminal if they had been caught, who isn’t filled with anger, rage, and hate and either trolls people online or fantasizes about killing or injuring people, who hasn’t had questionable relationships or friendships with teenage girls (or boys) while an adult who was more than three years older than them (i.e., of a sexual nature), who doesn’t act violent while angry and get into bar fights or other fights with men for no good reason, or who doesn’t act violent at home with their p.artner or children, who doesn’t raise their voice in a menacing way to threaten or scare their p.artner and/or children, who doesn’t try to monopolize decisions made in the home life, who doesn’t lie or withhold pertinent information with their p.artner, who doesn’t waste lots of money gambling, who isn’t regarded as an asshole by other people (not including anyone who did screw him over), who doesn’t feel insecure if their female p.artner likes stating their opinions and won’t stand for nonsense, or if their female p.artner happens to be more successful or make money than they do, or not be envious because she’s more fit, healthy, younger, and has more hair than they do, or because she has skills that they don’t, and who won’t leave her or cheat as she becomes older and no longer has youthful looks… oh, and who doesn’t have STDs (or AIDs/HIV) they can spread that they caught from previous p.artners. Not having hired prostitutes or paid for sex work, ever, would also be a bonus. And no one really wants to be with someone who has hooked up for one-night-stands with people from online apps or Craiglist, etc., multiple times.

Are there any men out there who fit ALL the above criteria of things they don’t do?

Nope.

I’ve seen TV shows about humanlike robots. The male ones ended up acting like the above as well. Jealous, angry robots often have no qualms about killing you, either. Lack of an ability to truly empathize with humans.

From a female perspective, my point is that if I want to be with any man, I have no choice but to forgive him for his wrongdoings and flaws (and hope he won’t randomly murder me, because even previously non-violent men have done that), or otherwise stay single and celibate.