So hey it’s me…Gracie again…this may be your first time reading something I wrote or it may be your second time..But anyways I wanted to just say i’m doing better..I mean yes i’m still hurting from him..but the thing is I am learning to move on but I think I may be making a mistake.The guy I like is new at my school, he has a little bit of a bad history with my friend Lexie….it’s pretty messed up actually..what he had done to her…and I feel like if I like him it’ll make me a bad friend I mean my friends said he was flirting with me pretty hard this morning at school…but the thing is what he done to my friend I mean I wonder if he’s done it to other girls…See what he done was…. he got her to send nudes and he sended them to everyone in their school,well now their old school,well yeah he had exposed her……She moved to my school to get a new start and he ends up moving to that same school and he is already talking about how he’s exposed her,but he says he didn’t mean to…I don’t know if I should believe him.He says he’s changed and what I think about him is very important to him…I don’t know if it’s because he wants to get into my pants or if he’s actually changed to a genuinely nice person.But yet I think, maybe he’s not trying to get into my pants I mean he’s still a virgin he isn’t really having sex right now…What should I do???? i’m opened to a variety of different answers
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In my opinion, don’t do it. Do be with a guy like him, a guy who “accidentally” sends nudes to the whole school. How does that even happen? That’s messed up. You should respect your friend and NOT go out with him. No friend should be betrayed like that. Remember, “sisters over misters”. If he is nice as you say, you could stick to being friends with him, until you know him better – as in know about his life and goals. That’s just my opinion. Because you never know if he might do something bad to you.
“already talking about how he exposed her” with who, exactly?
And yes, that doesn’t happen on accident. If it was shared with him on the basis of trust and he broke that even for one person, it’s not in anyway ok.
Has he given her any type of meaningful apology? Has he told anyone else off for giving her trouble about it at their old school? Easy to say a person has changed but without the actions to back it up it’s just empty words. He was apparently still a virgin when the photos got around, so that doesn’t mean much.
If you want to give him a chance, that’s on you. I wouldn’t push past the bounds of friends with him, though. And I can see your girlfriend being upset and betrayed by even that, feeling like you don’t care what happened to her so you should talk with her too.