Have you ever been in a situation where everyone makes you feel crazy? CRAZY for feeling the way you feel? CRAZY for reacting the way you do? Everyone in the environment you are in act like they do no wrong and put all the blame on you. Tell you that you are the one being hateful. Tell you that you took the to far or the wrong way. Tell you that you are the problem. Im not that CRAZY. But it makes you feel crazy when everyone is telling you that you are.
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Yeah, I definitely been in that situation a few times that is why as an introvert I don’t really like crowd psychology it takes good people and turns them into assholes excuse my language.
i understand that! the worse part is these people are my so called friends
Yeah, that will happen at times but you just got to find a way to keep yourself alive because as things get better things will get worse and the in betweens and how it all plays out in our minds makes things more complex perpetual depression or whatever you call it through all the constants and variables in the world we must keep ourselves alive for what else is there?
Yes….and sometimes….that’s when you gotta just stop listening to other people. If they aren’t willing to honestly listen to you or take you seriously…..then maybe it’s better to start treating them the same way that they are treating you…..I dunno. I get this situation a lot. It completely sucks especially when it is coming from alleged friends or family members. Some people choose to be ignorant…..because the truth hurts. And when you hit people with the truth, sometimes they can’t do anything but deny it and call you crazy, usually quite defensively. Break someone’s bubble…..and they get upset.
If someone is invested in misunderstanding you, they will continue to be that way.
Feelings are undervalued socially…..in my opinion anyway. Like not getting someone’s feelings or trying to understand why they feel that way can lead to misunderstanding really quite quickly. Then people call you crazy and stuff (my least favorite word ever).