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by ourdarkestparadise

Sooo things had been okay recently. I wasn’t happy, but it wasn’t as bad as it had been.

Things have gotten bad again I found out my boy friend cheated on me. I don’t know what to do. It was so hard for me to trust him, i cant trust him anymore. I still love him but im so scared. It hurts But it hurts more because my parents are divorced due to my father cheating.

He said he didnt mean it and he regrets it and hates himself for it. I dont know what to believe. My best friend thinks i should leave him. She said i can do better and i deserve better.

I dont want to leave him. I love him. He means so much to me. But what if it happens again. I dont want to get hurt again.

 

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Brother Blue 4/11/2018 - 6:35 pm

Honestly, I wouldn’t stay with him.

I know that you don’t want to leave him, but nobody deserves that kind of treatment from someone who is meant to care about you. You do deserve better. And you’re only young. You will meet other guys, who you will care about much more than this guy. Take it from someone who has been there before. You will.

At the same time, I don’t know the exact nature of what happened. Maybe it was only a small thing. Maybe he really does regret it. There are lots of details about your situation I don’t know. But you do. Take some time away from him to think about how you feel and how bad what he did was. Talk to your friends. But more than anything, do what is best for you.

mstewart1973 4/11/2018 - 9:08 pm

Please leave him. My ex husband just cheated on me and abandoned his two kids. His father did the same to his family. It sounds like you need to “fix your picker. “. There’s a website called chumplady.com. There’s a lot of very good advice with people in your shoes. Don’t invest more of yourself into this relationship, get healed, (therapy, online, books) and you can have s much better life.

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