I’m 21, just an average adult with bipolar, anxiety, mixed with a little paranoia and depression. I currently live in a 2 bedroom little house with my fiance and a friend in her 2 kids. OK so here is the mist of all my problems. The women staying with us isn’t . We arent allowed to have roommates simply because of the fact the septic cant handle it. Well the landlord knew we had people staying with us because of a surprise visit. Told her a month. Well 2 weeks in she came to my job and kinda surprised me by talking about the roommate and at of sacredness i said she moved out. now she wants to come to my house and measure a door and idk what to do!!
On the other note my love life is shot. We have simply formed a dislike for each other. IM GETTING MARRIED IN LESS THAN 3 MONTHS!! AHHHH! Yet all of his family simply hates me because of rumors started when i was in high school before i was with him. He has no idea about my mental health. im attempted suicide back in September. He doesnt understand what it is like. i cant hold a job for the love of me!
i feel like maybe if i tried killing myself and a little better things would be better. maybe my fiance wouldnt be taken from his family. everyone could live in this house without me. I FEEL LIKE SUCH A HUGE PIECE OF SHIT DUDE!
EVERYONE IS BLAMING ME everything. I cant keep living my life like this in this situtaion im in!
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I once had a house with a septic system and the system was built to building code of the day ( circa 2000) and the septic system was sized to the number of the bedrooms with the idea that two people would occupy each bedroom. I don’t know when your rental home was built but I would bet the rules or at least practices where about the same whenever that was. So three adults and two children should about ok.
But the landlord said no roommates and that is her call. Even if you kill yourself the roommate would still be a roommate and still be subject to eviction.
I know a person who married a man she didn’t like. Twenty plus miserable years later they are finally getting a divorce. Marriage fixes just about nothing.