I’ve reached the point to where I think no one could love because of the way I look. All my body is good for is being used as a male’s sexual release. I really fucking hate myself.
Whether we like it or not, beauty literally means physical beauty. It’s the way we are hardwired. We want hot partners. What to do? It’s a curse of human evolution. Nature is using us as lab rats for its own purpose of keeping our race in existence. I think that the only way out of it is either to ignore our ugliness through sheer willpower, or to kill ourselves. By the way, ask me what ugliness is. I used to be ultra handsome. Then an illness hit me and now I look like terrorist. You’re lucky that you’re a female. Any guy who you’ll put your finger on will agree to sleep with you. I’m male, 31, and virgin XD
I think that’s precisely the problem she’s talking about. Any guy will want to sleep with her, but she’s afraid no one will find her truly “beautiful”, and love her. Speaking for myself, I hate it when people comment on my posts by calling me “lucky”. Just because you have problem X doesn’t mean she’s lucky and problem Y doesn’t exist.
Just imagine what it’s like to be 31, ugly AND virgin. That’s way worse than being twenty something, ugly BUT not a virgin. Anyway, it’s true that I don’t understand her condition completely. For that, I’ll have to become her
By the way, I find it a bit too much to believe that a girl whom somebody is ready to sleep with, is REALLY ugly, if you know what I mean. I think her problem is that she might be average but finds herself below average. Not to say that that’s her fault. I’m also average but find myself ugly. But that’s still much worse than being old and virgin AND ‘unloveable’
not sure if comparing problems is supposed to be helpful. also yeah it should be easier than cake for a woman to get a low quality guy. but yup thats right not everyone wants someone of low quality.
I really don’t know why people think virginity is such a big deal. I say, well, so what.I guess some people think being a virgin is a sign that they are a ‘loser’ or not successful… I’m not really sure …I am a virgin myself
Beauty is truly within. Of course people tend to focus on the physical first but sensible people look beyond that. Beauty to me goes beyond physical form. After all, we are all meat on bone. It’s about what we use our existence to do. Be kind to yourself, I know it’s easy for me to say that. But I can feel your pain because in a sense I feel in a similar way when I think about my perception of sex and self.
Virginity is a big deal because it signifies the inability of a man to get sex. This leads to sexual frustration, and most of all, being considered not worthy enough. Sex is not just an act of instinct, it’s a means of communicating to someone else that he’s accepted and loved, to some extent. It’s difficult for girls to understand because they take it for granted.
Intelligence is beautiful. Humbleness in a self-obsessed world is beautiful. Both genders currently are atrocious in these two categories, as intelligence takes effort and listening, and humbleness takes vulnerability and crucifying the ego. These two traits can be seductive, at least from my view. I do disagree with madhergupta, as someone that possessed these traits that I was subtly attracted to would make me much more attracted to them. Madhergupta is only correct in the fact that there has to be a semblance of physical attraction, but that physical attraction is only a small part of it, at least in my eyes. Many other substantive aspects of humans to fill in the gaps for what primal nature tells us is attractive.
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Kindness is beautiful.
Strength is beautiful. The girls that I have fallen for in my life have all had strong characters.
Whether we like it or not, beauty literally means physical beauty. It’s the way we are hardwired. We want hot partners. What to do? It’s a curse of human evolution. Nature is using us as lab rats for its own purpose of keeping our race in existence. I think that the only way out of it is either to ignore our ugliness through sheer willpower, or to kill ourselves. By the way, ask me what ugliness is. I used to be ultra handsome. Then an illness hit me and now I look like terrorist. You’re lucky that you’re a female. Any guy who you’ll put your finger on will agree to sleep with you. I’m male, 31, and virgin XD
I think that’s precisely the problem she’s talking about. Any guy will want to sleep with her, but she’s afraid no one will find her truly “beautiful”, and love her. Speaking for myself, I hate it when people comment on my posts by calling me “lucky”. Just because you have problem X doesn’t mean she’s lucky and problem Y doesn’t exist.
Thank you. Like really, thank you… I needed that feeling of someone somewhat understanding. Thank you?
Thank you. Like really, thank you… I needed that feeling of someone somewhat understanding. Thank you!
Just imagine what it’s like to be 31, ugly AND virgin. That’s way worse than being twenty something, ugly BUT not a virgin. Anyway, it’s true that I don’t understand her condition completely. For that, I’ll have to become her
By the way, I find it a bit too much to believe that a girl whom somebody is ready to sleep with, is REALLY ugly, if you know what I mean. I think her problem is that she might be average but finds herself below average. Not to say that that’s her fault. I’m also average but find myself ugly. But that’s still much worse than being old and virgin AND ‘unloveable’
not sure if comparing problems is supposed to be helpful. also yeah it should be easier than cake for a woman to get a low quality guy. but yup thats right not everyone wants someone of low quality.
I really don’t know why people think virginity is such a big deal. I say, well, so what.I guess some people think being a virgin is a sign that they are a ‘loser’ or not successful… I’m not really sure …I am a virgin myself
Beauty is truly within. Of course people tend to focus on the physical first but sensible people look beyond that. Beauty to me goes beyond physical form. After all, we are all meat on bone. It’s about what we use our existence to do. Be kind to yourself, I know it’s easy for me to say that. But I can feel your pain because in a sense I feel in a similar way when I think about my perception of sex and self.
May I ask why virginity is such a big deal? I’m not asking this to sound rude or anything.. just curious.
Wait sorry! Meant to send that to the other comment
Because it’s in da bible.
because of movies like the 40 year old virgin
Virginity is a big deal because it signifies the inability of a man to get sex. This leads to sexual frustration, and most of all, being considered not worthy enough. Sex is not just an act of instinct, it’s a means of communicating to someone else that he’s accepted and loved, to some extent. It’s difficult for girls to understand because they take it for granted.
Intelligence is beautiful. Humbleness in a self-obsessed world is beautiful. Both genders currently are atrocious in these two categories, as intelligence takes effort and listening, and humbleness takes vulnerability and crucifying the ego. These two traits can be seductive, at least from my view. I do disagree with madhergupta, as someone that possessed these traits that I was subtly attracted to would make me much more attracted to them. Madhergupta is only correct in the fact that there has to be a semblance of physical attraction, but that physical attraction is only a small part of it, at least in my eyes. Many other substantive aspects of humans to fill in the gaps for what primal nature tells us is attractive.
so to people who really need sex, why don’t you get a prostitute? Assuming sex is the only thing you want out of this.
Would you feel something if you paid a girl to hold your hand? Same goes with paid sex.