Sometimes, most of the times, I think about how easy males have it because they aren’t shamed if they have hair on their bodies.
Personally, my body decided one day to grow hair under my chin and I started shaving it because I know that no one wants to see a girl who has the start of hair growing under their chin. But it’s so hard to hide it now because of the scars it has left and now it looks even worse.
Sometimes I hate my background because I come from a culture that is just quite hairy.
I don’t know what to do anymore. Hair is all over my body and all I can do is shave it and just hate myself because of it.
Could anyone ever love someone who isn’t fucking smoothed skin. Like I know this sounds like such a stupid thing to complain about but fuck… It sucks. And I have no clue what to do about it anymore.
Do you think hair will ever be accepted on a womens body in areas not conventional to societies standards?
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Probably not :/ I get how you feel though I’m like extremely hairy as well haha, even for a guy. I kinda just started wearing only jeans bc my legs are like really hairy.
It may hearten you to know that women generally prefer men with hairy legs to those who are hairless.
I’m a guy and I was shamed once. I ended up in hospital after helping someone in trouble, and they had to put electrodes on my chest. Back then I wasn’t really into manscaping, and the nurse made sure to let me now how inappropriate she found my hairy chest.
But mostly I just spent years avoiding taking my shirt off because I was ashamed and didn’t really know what to do about it.
I finally learned how to manscape, and now it doesn’t weigh on me all that much at all.
Can’t you find a girlfriend to do your routine with? Then it might seem like less of a hassle and more of a social situation? Otherwise just find some radical feminists to hang out with. People in those kinds of environments are more likely to be tolerant of hairy bodies.
Idk if you’re straight, but as a guy, I would say I’m fine with women having a bush. It makes it nicer to go down on her if it’s not a jungle down there, but apart from that… I mean, yeah, I think I kinda like that she has hairless armpits and legs and so on. But maybe there are guys who are more relaxed about stuff like that.
In any case: Don’t forget that hair removal is something that’s relatively affordable and fast to “fix” about a person. If someone has a terrible personality, that can take ages to change. You probably have other things going for you, so don’t let this hold you back.
everyone grows hair. i’m a girl, i have armpit hair. i embrace it!
also, arm hair. leg hair. toe hair. they aren’t as prominent as they’re light blonde. but, my armpit hair and my pubic hair are dark. i like it! you do you.
IrrationalLion posted this, but it got filtered:
I feel your pain. Grew a mustache when I was 10 years old, sh*t if I grew it out id have a better one than many males I know. It’s embarrassing, it sucks. I use nair ( a lotion type of stuff that chemically burns the hairs off, doesn’t hurt or leave marks unless you leave it on too long) on my mustache now ever since a guy made fun of me in middle school. Ive had people point out that I have dark facial hairs on my face like mens side burns and on my cheeks too though before someone pointed it out I never really cared too much which sucks. I tried putting nair on it and chemically burned my face lol. I have hair on my chest too which again I noticed but I didn’t think it was bad until people pointed it out. You can try to buy a waxing kit online itll make it so the area is smoother than shaving and you wont have to di it as frequently. But as for your confidence don’t worry. Were all f*cking humans and grow hair so f*ck it. You’ll find someone who wont give a sh*t that you have hair in places girls dont want hair. My boyfriend was the one who pointed out my chest hair and I just told him I really don’t give a sh*t and I don’t think he really cared either. Also most people wont notice hairs unless theyre close up. I know this may not be the best advice but the way I seen it was I can sit here and worry about the hairs on my body everyday and be miserable or I can say f*ck it and maintain it the best I can but not let it consume my thoughts too much because everybody has hair and their own insecurities. Also I find many nationalities known to be hairier to be very attractive. and the way I see it if some guy doesn’t wanna be with me because I’m not perfectly smooth like girls in a magazine then frankly hes not my type at that point either. I hope this helped somehow knowing youre not alone but I’m sure youre probably really attractive