Because abortion is legal I thought that it was ok. Somehow it didn’t register as murder because it is legal. It gave me the idea that it’s not that big of a deal. Well it kind of is a huge deal. Because of decoupling sex and commitment I kept getting pregnant by men who were not able to provide, or didn’t really want a kid with me in the first place. So I was trying to avoid single motherhood and thought I had more control of my fertility than I actually did. Birth control had bad side effects but I still tried to avoid pregnancy. I failed unfortunately. I didn’t think I would regret it down the road when I’m older single and childless. Be careful with sex when you are a young woman. It’s so much more dangerous for a woman to be reckless sexually. I would never tell any young woman to have an abortion knowing what I know now. Abortion is not what many people think it’s about. It’s more sinister than what many people understand. I can understand in rare cases of women needing abortion but the majority of them are over unanticipated/unexpected pregnancy.
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Thanks for sharing that with us shoo01.
That is one scary thing about life that there are so many ways to make mistakes, even when you think you are doing the right thing, it’s easy to make mistakes.
I also feel bad about so many things I wish I would, and wouldn’t have done.
I think you made the right decision. You said a lot in your first sentence “Because abortion is legal I thought that it was ok” but I would take it a step further and say “because childbirth is legal I thought it was ok.” Both acts can be debated.
Creating new life in an overpopulated world that’s full of suffering is to me the greatest sin. Adopt, adopt, adopt. Help the abandoned and needy children who are already stuck on this planet before making more. I think we can ALL agree if our parents thought of this before they had us, we would have been spared a lifetime of misery. Think of your unborn children being spared the hell that you were subjected to, and I think you’ll see that you made the rational, selfless choice.
I agree with what ya saying ax, if they dont get born they’te never gonna exposed to it. A blessing? I’ll leave other people to work that one out, they wont be the suicide project class of 38 at any rate..
I’ve been thinking a lot about this and I think I’d like another chance at it, just as long as I’m on a level mental playing field with a lot of people on this planet. Aint gonna happen , so popping my clogs is still the best option I think.
It hurts whites the most, because other ethnicities are less likely to get abortions. The world may be heavily populated but taking out the more intelligent this will not help matters. It is the more intelligent people who are most likely to abort sadly. The smarter you are the more u are worried about the conditions the kids come into. High iq is what created civilization and why the third world comes to the first world.
I’m not sure that most people that have abortions are actually thinking about the conditions the kids actually come into. Mostly it comes down to unplanned pregancies. Maybe they should decide for themselves when they get here. We cant tell whats in their future whether it’s gonna be red or black on the roulette wheel.
Use a spermicidal lubricant and have your man pull out. Then you can have all the sex in the world.
It spices it up and you don’t have to worry about unplanned pregnancy! Guys like shooting all over their girlfriends.