its just not fair
is this the way i deserve to be treated?
im so fucking understanding im so fucking caring im so fucking forgiving
but the fucking second i do something wrong god its basically unforgivable
any mistake i make is so hateful and awful that theres no way i could have meant something else theres no way that maybe just maybe they could have misinterpreted what i was saying
i deal with so much bull so much bullshit
im always the bad guy
every single time without fail
is this really what i deserve
is this really worth staying is it really
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youre right. that doesnt sound fair at all
You need to stand your ground and remind people when you have been forgiving for their mistakes. But it sounds to me you might be in a relationship where you don’t have much power so people are treating you like crap and getting away with it.
I recall at my last job people with authority would abuse their positions. For instance, they’d claim they said something when they didn’t or vice versa. Fortunately I had the luxury of leaving that place once I reached a better level in my life.
My best suggestion is to simply extract yourself from that situation, whether it’s a job or relationship. If you live with family and they’re giving you a hard time then it’d be best if you were able to live on your own. Of course, any move you make requires tons of hard work to change your life.
Don’t be anyone’s doormat only you can stand up for yourself. This was something I also learned the hard way. I also learned my best tool is my brain, ideally, it’s good to think through your situation and look for better ways to communicate and resolve issues.
To keep your job sometimes you have to take responsibility or apologize even if it’s not your fault. Failing to do so just makes things worse and they like nothing more to fire people who appear to be arrogant, rude, etc. You just have to be one step ahead of your opponents.
It’s up to you, afterall
It might be because you are around crappy people/person, and you don’t have good boundaries which can make you vulnerable to being treated badly.