i had a girlfriend, whom I loved more than words described and always tried to see the good in her. Recently she became cold, not really worried about me or about what’s going on in my life. Wanted to see me less and told me to trust her and all that bullshit. I knew something was wrong , she had told me that she has been sleeping a lot cause she was sick, didn’t hear from her for 3 days. My thoughts were racing I decided to go to her house, I knew she was there. I stood there knocking for 15 minutes without an answer. I walked around back and the sliding door so happened to be unlocked and I walked in. I found her with another guy. I begged for an explanation but all I got was yelled at to get out “this is who I want to be with” punching me in my chest and in my balls to try to get me to leave. He walked up to me and I beat him up , I couldn’t control myself . This happened yesterday so here I am. Feeling more pain then I’ve felt in my entire life if anyone has any advice or any input at all it will be greatly appreciated , thx
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Wow. I am so sorry. Nobody deserves that. I don’t even know what to say.
Sorry to hear but it’s good that you caught her since she didn’t have the basic decency to tell you that she’s no longer interested and is seeing someone else.
It is very hard to let someone go esp when they betrayed you and you were in love with them. Just remember that there literally millions of other fish in the sea. Whenever I broke up with a great girl I thought I’d never find someone better but I always did and I also became a better person myself over time.
So I’d advise cutting any connections you had with her and move on, she’s dirt.
My ex boyfriend broke up with me, it hurt very badly. I tried to devise a ‘plan’ to try and ‘win’ him back. I begged him to take me back. He wouldn’t. I ended up finding another guy, he was already a friend (I guess) of mine, now we are in a relationship and I don’t know what I saw in my ex, this guy is waaaaaaaay better.
How horrible. I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Nobody should have to go through this. Just take your time, let yourself feel the pain and very slowly you will heal. It might get worse at the start but eventually each day will get a little easier. Be kind to yourself. X
Wonder why ppl never realize what goes around comes around.
Cry it out <3
Your sorrow will soon end for then a sudden rage will occur. Do not let the rage concur, don’t go near the past; it’ll swallow you and torture your every nerve.
While I can’t explain it, I do know that we can become very astute at choosing the opposite sex. For me it was a combination of reading several helpful books and spending a few sessions with a counselor on the subject. My wife is a far better woman than any of my exes. Also, there is an old adage that goes: “It is more important to be the right person than to find the right person.”
My childhood traumas brought me close to death and being close to death brought me to this site but a wonderful woman has nonetheless been in my life for a long time now. Which is largely why I am still typing and breathing.
Thank you everyone 🙂
How are you today?
No much better , I feel like I lost my motivation to do anything at all . I know I’m better off now I just have to try my best to get over it I guess.