What does it mean when someone you love and fell out with badly because they met someone new, and were a general nightmare to be with suddenly unblocks and texts you?… it just hurts. And to be fair it hurts even more pretending I wasn’t in hospital the other day for suicide attempt… life is strange, cruel and unusual at times.
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I recently learned that assuming a desire on their part for honest engagement is a necessary evil, no matter how questionable their motives seem to you.
Yeah I left it open but I’m getting vibes of it being a endeavor to bolster his ego at the expense of my sanity/self worth. I never want to turn people down for honest engagement usually…
I’d question their motives.. I doubt I would respond.
Chu are wise 🙂 question everything especially intention. And if I was stronger I would have blocked them straight away. It’s all mind games..
I am a very cynical person. I always assume the worst in people. So my conclusion from the information you gave would be. They met someone new that they thought was better than you. So they chose that person over you. Not only did they choose that person but they cut you out completely blocking you etc. Now they come crawling back because things didn’t work out as great as they hoped. The new person didn’t make them as happy as they expected and now they want back whatever happiness they used to have with you. Because that was better than whatever they have now. Probably with some lame excuse that they missed you the whole time and they wanted to stay friends. But you were just fighting all the time so blocking you seemed like the best thing for both of you. At least it was the best thing, until they needed you again, and then all of a sudden unblocking you seems the best thing for both of you lol.
I personally would not give them another chance. I would consider them untrustworthy, and would just assume that the same thing would eventually happen again.
I’m in agreement with this observation. As much as I wish I could be naive and see good in this person.. they live in these loops. Almost to a narcissistic degree, I don’t think they even really know they just live to top up their ego and even if I told him how vulnerable and uncomfortable it is for me( for him to text me) that would somehow be my fault. I questionned his intentions and yeah… silence. Your cynical thinking will keep you safer than I. My mind is so attached to hope, so false hope is devastating… thanks for your reply really helped me further my perspective on this issue.