I AM SO FUCKING TIRED OF FAKE FRIENDS.
I am getting to old for this shit!
If you are a fake friend here is a step-by-step program of how not to act:
- Don’t lie to me
- Don’t ditch to me
- Don’t be a b*tch
It’s really that simple!
Can you believe it?
Three steps to not be a terrible human being!!
Also, I’m going to start a discussion in the comments. I’m going to comment a story of one horrible friend and one good friend. Because, even when you lose someone, no matter how long it takes, someone will come into your life and you won’t be so alone. Feel free to leave one too I’d love to talk to any of you!
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Bad: I had a childhood friend for 14 years. We grew up together, our parents went to high school together, we even lived right across the street from each other. When we were growing up, she would constantly lie to me, about literally anything and everything. I never found out why. She would also ditch me to hang with other people when we already had plans, she would even humiliate me if it meant she would look good. But, the worst thing was she would manipulate me into staying her friend for years. She would tell me she’s suicidal or anorexic or she’s been hurting herself, so I would meet her where our driveways met and we would just hug and stand there crying for what seemed like hours. She was my best friend what was I supposed to do? I think I always knew when she was lying, but the day i checked under her bandages and saw… nothing. There was nothing there. She had been using me for so long. Our friendship blew up years later in high school, but I’ll never get over the feeling of being betrayed. I question all my friendships now.
Good: I relasped a week ago, she helped me through it. She sat there on the phone with me for hours telling me my worth, as if thats really her job. She doesn’t make me feel like a burden. I care for her so much. I was really drunk when this happened so just imagine having to call your shitfaced friend down from.. you know. Someone had really hurt me that night, a friend, I felt like I was nothing, like I had no place in anyones lives. Then, she made me think about how much pain she would go through if she loses me. I’m not a burden, I mean something to someone. I’m someone else’s lifeline. Even if I’m not my own.
That’s really nice yoy had such a good experience after having a really bad one. 🙂
I hate fake friends too, I have them all over the place on Facebook, and I never kept the old ones I had for some reason which most were from Gaia or TinierMe…
When it came to losing them, most of the time we would fight for some reason or they would just mysteriously vanish forever and supposedly be “too busy” with their persobal lives to ever come back…
Even if it’s the weekend, or the holidays, months or years go by, and the least they coukd do is connect through the internet through a freaking phone so now that excuse sounds really flimsy to me.
I didn’t even think about that last part until now, not having internet is no excuse…
Sometimes I wonder if everything in making friends is pointless or is now and where I should even go to talk to people…
No offense, but it’s funny how some of the people I can remotely get along with or understand seem to be depressed/suicidal people on here. You guys seem like real people with real problems.
I mean, otherwise, the world just seems so superficial and fake, I don’t even know what to make of it…
Anyways, I’m not sure if I had anything as bad as you but then again for better or worse I’ve never had a single real life friend, just all online friends. ._.
You’re bad friend sounds like a sociopath… not sure about the new one being an empath though, idk, maybe I’m using the terms too loosely. :p
But to not just be a bad friend but even lie and manipulate you… that seems like a rare special kind of jerkish fiend, a real work of “art”.
I hope karma comes to bite your olf friend in the butt after what she did to you. :p
Vice versa for you and the other, I hope good things come your way for you both. 🙂
Thank you so much for sharing and your caring comments at the end! I’m sorry your friends just left you in cyberspace like that. Growing up I only had the bad friend and playstation 3 friends soI understand. Now, we’re all grown up and still friends on there, but we never talk like we used to. Sometimes I think when you grow up it’s harder to make friends because you care so much about what others think, when you’re a kid it’s the opposite.
If you ever need to talk don’t hesitate to comment or ask for an email!
Xo, LK
I’m gonna sound like a d*** here, I’d rather not have friends. Can’t relate to anyone. Not talkative. Etc…. But I have a bf so… anyhow… less people to worry about (I wouldn’t be a good friend anyway). I stopped being friends with someone online because they kept backstabbing.
I understand, growing up I literally had 2 friends. I can only really relate to people who had a bad childhood growing up, or growing up poor. They seem to be the most down-to-earth anyway. Glad you have someone you trust. It’s hard to find.
I don’t think its that hard to just ditch parasites, i mean if i had a friend like that.. i wouldn’t.
I guess most people see me as a cold person but im not a dog who follows another ones ass, i held camaraderie in high regard. I gather friends that i can still call friends even though we haven’t been in touch for years.
I guess male bonds are different from females.