I know this is the wrong place to ask, but the people on here are the only people I’ve come to trust.
There’s this girl who is the only person that makes me feel anything but the crushing hell of sadness and I really like her. I want to be with her but she’s rejected me before and I thought I moved on. But whenever I think of her, I get a warm feeling that I haven’t felt in ages, and my heart skips a beat. I just don’t know what to do, as she’s the only real reason won’t I off myself.
I’m sorry if I waste your time but please, what should I do?
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Do you have any hobbies or things you enjoy doing? If so, I would try that. If not, well, try to find things that you might enjoy doing. Especially if it can take your mind off things as well as give you a chance to meet new people.
Oh, and give it time.
Just patience.. work on improving yourself a lot, improvement in every aspect, let her be your motivation. And meanwhile don’t show her that you are interested in her. That feeling when you see your improvement through time will power you to go on with your life. Honestly maybe even then she won’t be into you but it won’t matter anymore, you will forget of her.. you will.
So, no depressing sadness, just try to improve yourself always
Be confident, ask her. But just because she says no doesn’t mean you’ll be alone forever. And just because she says yes doesn’t mean you’ll be together forever.
If you try, you have a chance to fail. If you don’t try, you will fail. You need to be comfortable with that first, and not let it destroy you.
Woooow hiiiii are you me nice to meet you. I feel u dude. Are you guys still like friends and talk everyday and stuff? Because I know exactly how self torturing that is. Feelings… sigh