You can make friends, join groups, take courses in college/university. Yes I know it isn’t easy nowadays, people are more choosy. But if you have a good sense of humor and don’t come across as needy or clingy, you will make new friends. Don’t forget there are others in your situation also. Additionally, you can try social media sites.
Whenever I find myself in a bad place, I treat it like I’m at war and I put up with all the crap so that I can achieve my objective, whatever it is, like finding a job (if you’re unemployed). Use those negative emotions to turn it into action. Start by simply saying ‘hi’ to people, work up to some chit-chat and eventually it’ll get easier.
Also, you lost your friends-think back to why that happened and what you can do differently this time around. Try to keep at least 5-10 people in your life and 2-3 very close friends. So in case some of them move or the relationship ends, then you’ll still have some people you can count on.
And yes some people are rotten/fake so you are better off not having toxic people in your life. But there are good people out there also, you just have to put in the effort to find them.
If only it were that easy.. Most people don’t want to be friends unless you agree with their opinions on everything and/or can offer them something. Being nice, polite and funny usually isn’t enough anymore. I have just never been able to make real friends, no matter WHAT I do or how I act. It’s a BIG part of why I want to die.
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alcohol , music and tears. wake up the next day and go to work. rinse repeat till next weekend.
if we stand in a line we can save on ammunition xD
What’s your opinion on vultures?
You can make friends, join groups, take courses in college/university. Yes I know it isn’t easy nowadays, people are more choosy. But if you have a good sense of humor and don’t come across as needy or clingy, you will make new friends. Don’t forget there are others in your situation also. Additionally, you can try social media sites.
Whenever I find myself in a bad place, I treat it like I’m at war and I put up with all the crap so that I can achieve my objective, whatever it is, like finding a job (if you’re unemployed). Use those negative emotions to turn it into action. Start by simply saying ‘hi’ to people, work up to some chit-chat and eventually it’ll get easier.
Also, you lost your friends-think back to why that happened and what you can do differently this time around. Try to keep at least 5-10 people in your life and 2-3 very close friends. So in case some of them move or the relationship ends, then you’ll still have some people you can count on.
And yes some people are rotten/fake so you are better off not having toxic people in your life. But there are good people out there also, you just have to put in the effort to find them.
If only it were that easy.. Most people don’t want to be friends unless you agree with their opinions on everything and/or can offer them something. Being nice, polite and funny usually isn’t enough anymore. I have just never been able to make real friends, no matter WHAT I do or how I act. It’s a BIG part of why I want to die.