Why the fuck do people even try to pretend to be your friend. Everyone always leave you in the end after all. I don’t know if there’s something wrong with me despite the fact I’ve always been trying to change myself for the better. I’ve just accepted the fact I’m busted or something. I’m always the one trying to help others, and nobody wants to help me. I don’t care if I sound bitchy or not. Fuck helping others. Fuck kindness. Fuck everything about this stupid world, and fuck anyone that claims to be my “friend” because nobody wants to actually be friends with me. I just get taken advantage of by everyone who wants to get ahead of me.
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there is nothing wrong with you. i’m sure you are awsome and that you are an amazing friend but people are cruel. they just hang out with when they need something or don’t have anyone else around. i am in that situation my whole life, right now…and i cry almost every day because i don’t have anyone. they all ditch you in the end, don’t they? i hope that one day you will meet someone who actually wants to be your friend because who you are. and i hope that person will appreciate every single thing about you. you will get through this. just remember there is that one person who is waiting to find a friend just like you. don’t lose hope and if you need anything i’m here for you. 🙂
they don’t pretend to be your friend. they just don’t care about you the way you care about them.
people are trash. that’s true. give them a hand and they will cut your arm off. show them weakness and they will take advantage of it.
but not all. there are good people out there. there are super cool people that will listen to you, trust, and help you. you can’t forsake people because of the actions of some.
it will get better with age. people get more mature. and less dumb.
do you want to talk?
i have the same issue
but i hope that one day i will be strong enough to be satisfied by myself
hope that for you too
but for the time being
how about you hanging out with people just for fun
be like them ok ?
Must be hard busting your ass for others but they somehow disappear when you need them the most.
Fock those people! They better not show their smug ass faces when they need your help again.
That’s exactly my problem…
And do I keep going on to a new website and a new website and another new website lurking or actually make an account and then we all just ignore or hate each other instead…
We are all broken. We all have insecurities. We can only live our own lives. We need to live and do for ourselves first before we can do for others. I wish I could keep all my friends and family together with me but it is natural for us all to find our own way. The best of friends will come and go and sometimes decades later, Your paths may cross. We need to cherish the times we have with them and let them find their path as we need to find ours. We can carry them with us in our own life and remember the happiness we shared while finding our own way and using those good memories to fill our life on our own path. We are not meant to be possessed by each other. If You love somebody, if You love someone, set them free. New Friends will always come into Your life and many will go their separate ways but no matter what, those friends that have gone will always carry You in their hearts and minds as You will them. You are a human being. You have the ability to struggle to survive and life is a struggle for all. We all have to fight to obtain brief moments of goodness in a reality of crap. Without the suffering, the good moments wouldn’t be as sweet. Take all that heartache and use it as fuel to be defiant to how You feel and show the world it will not hold You down. Live and do for Yourself first and that will bring confidence which all people are drawn to. When You take on things and situations that scare You and You overcome them You will feel accomplishment and gain the knowledge that not only can You overcome but You will look back and see it wasn’t that tough after all. Give Yourself all the love and fulfillment You would give to Your friends and people will see that as an attractive quality and they can’t help but be drawn to it. Remember, we all are insecure and inside think and feel a lot alike. You would be amazed at how many of those friends that left You feel the same as You. Love Yourself first and others will see that and be drawn to You cuz in the end, we are all searching for the same thing, acceptance. Be defiant to Your pain and show it You will overcome and those around You will see the strength in You.
You have to remember that people are always out for themselves. If they see that someone can boost their status or benefit them in some way they’ll become their friend. The ironic thing about making friends is that you always have to look like you don’t need any friends.
People who are needy, a doormat, clingy instantly turn people off. If you’re helping others and that doesn’t create better relationships or they don’t help you back then they were just using you. Keep in mind people have their own mental issues, so it might have nothing to do with you at all.
The main thing is to live your life, appear outwardly happy, content and eventually, people will be drawn to your confidence. I’ve had a ton of friends over the years, most left because of education, career or they simply moved away. I’ve kept some of my main friends from high school and university and from work, but most of them are distant.
So again don’t take that personally, people’s lives change and it has nothing to do with you. What you need to do is just keep making new friends, be friendly, outgoing, charming, funny and that’ll also attract people (along with the suggestions above). Eventually, you’ll find a few who are loyal, good people and who will like you for you.
Also I’d suggest not to be too quick to help others until you know they’re not the kind to use you. Otherwise, they’ll just step all over you. Yes, we all need a few decent friends and family members to hang out with and do stuff or just talk to. We are social animals…so you just have to be patient and work at it. You’re not alone many people are in your situation.