I could live alone in the wilderness for the rest of my life and be perfectly content; however, I could not possibly live in everyday society – and be taunted by everyone else getting to enjoy what I’ll never get to experience – without eventually going insane.
Spending time in environments that stimulate feelings of aloneness (rather than loneliness) is critical for my mental well-being.
I live in society and only talk to another human about once a week (I mean real talking, not online chats or message boards) It’s been like this for almost a year now.
It is a lonely, pathetic, depressing, boring and miserable. And yes, is slowly driving me insane.
I hate my life so much. I can’t wait until it’s over.
I hope things get better for you because we all have basic needs that need to be met, including social/sexual ones according to Maslow’s hierarchy. I wouldn’t wish the life you described upon anybody, especially if you are expected to wageslave full-time while leading such an empty existence. What kind of life is that?
As for me, once my father dies in a few years, I will probably go months or years without talking to anyone besides cashiers, restaurant workers, and the like (other family members don’t even speak to me anymore). I could very well see myself snapping at that time if I haven’t made a successful transition into the wilderness by then.
Human beings arent meant to be alone for long amounts of time. We originated from tribes, similar to packs of animals. Being without human contact for long periods of time will cause your mind to deteriorate
My mind has deteriorated. Most of my life has been spent alone. Not just single.. But living alone, no friends.. Maybe that explains why I’m such a failure at everything.
I wish I would die and just end this pathetic existence.
Misanthropes are common in many animal pack-based societies (wolves, tigers, jackals, hyenas, etc), and obviously have been common in human society since ancient times, in all cultures.
So no. Humans are just fine being alone for long periods of time.
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I could live alone in the wilderness for the rest of my life and be perfectly content; however, I could not possibly live in everyday society – and be taunted by everyone else getting to enjoy what I’ll never get to experience – without eventually going insane.
Spending time in environments that stimulate feelings of aloneness (rather than loneliness) is critical for my mental well-being.
I live in society and only talk to another human about once a week (I mean real talking, not online chats or message boards) It’s been like this for almost a year now.
It is a lonely, pathetic, depressing, boring and miserable. And yes, is slowly driving me insane.
I hate my life so much. I can’t wait until it’s over.
I hope things get better for you because we all have basic needs that need to be met, including social/sexual ones according to Maslow’s hierarchy. I wouldn’t wish the life you described upon anybody, especially if you are expected to wageslave full-time while leading such an empty existence. What kind of life is that?
As for me, once my father dies in a few years, I will probably go months or years without talking to anyone besides cashiers, restaurant workers, and the like (other family members don’t even speak to me anymore). I could very well see myself snapping at that time if I haven’t made a successful transition into the wilderness by then.
Human beings arent meant to be alone for long amounts of time. We originated from tribes, similar to packs of animals. Being without human contact for long periods of time will cause your mind to deteriorate
My mind has deteriorated. Most of my life has been spent alone. Not just single.. But living alone, no friends.. Maybe that explains why I’m such a failure at everything.
I wish I would die and just end this pathetic existence.
relatable
Misanthropes are common in many animal pack-based societies (wolves, tigers, jackals, hyenas, etc), and obviously have been common in human society since ancient times, in all cultures.
So no. Humans are just fine being alone for long periods of time.
Totally normal and healthy.
I guess I feel like it’s a white mans world and old money
Sorry wrong thread
Is a life without living with a partner possible, yes.
I have lived this way a decade so far. I don’t need sex, it generally gives me flashbacks.