A common misconception that many men have about women is that they walk on clouds with a halos around their heads. Most of the people I work with are men, and a few of them are really interested in the dating scene. I watch them bending over backwards trying to get dates, paying half their hard earned money on girls, buying new sh** to impress them, etc, and it breaks my heart. These guys are really desperate to get laid, and some of them have even convinced themselves that they want romance. But that desperation leads them to have a complete lack of self respect as they pursue their desire.
I also have some female friends. Most of them are my friends because they have the decency and self awareness to be honest with themselves. I talked to one of them about this problem recently, and she replied, “I know. Most girls actually are very aware that men will give everything they have for sexual gratification, or even the hope of sexual gratification, and they use it to their advantage. Promotions at work, monetary gain, or just having someone compliment them so they can feel good about themselves — women use their sexuality to get all these things from desperate men.”
And most men are desperate. In fact, I would say that as animals, we’re all desperate. Having a di** means always having a voice in the back of your head telling you to try and sleep with every semi-attractive girl you meet. These are facts, and any man that denies this is completely delusional, or really good at lying to themselves. The only thing that separates desperate men from non-desperate ones is rationality, morality, and a healthy degree of self respect. But I’m observing that men like this are rare these days.
Now, being told that women use their sexuality to manipulate others, lie in court systems, cheat in scaling the promotional ladder (by sleeping with managers, etc.), and gain money (through fictional harassment lawsuits against companies (eg Uber), etc), doesn’t surprise me, nor do I condemn it. It makes sense. Because women are human. If a man had an inherent ability to make others do what he wanted, of course he would use it for his own materialistic benefit. This isn’t a “girl only” phenomenon — it’s a human characteristic. People are selfish bastards, and that includes both men and women.
I just wish more men would realize that human includes women. They’re not ethereal creatures that are somehow different from the average man. They have some physical differences, but inside they’re the same — weak minded, selfish, cruel, and flawed. Yes, you heard it here first folks. Women are flawed, just like men. And it boggles my mind how many men fail to realize this.
Why do I care? Why am I ranting about this? Because it annoys the living crap out of me. There are many men that I know with some good character trait or other. Say I know man A who is really good at X. If A had pursued X with all his heart, he would have been an incredible human being. But instead, man A spends every last second of his free time, and every last dime of his hard earned blood money, trying to sleep with various shallow gold digging women. And so, because of his di**, he remains just a normal, pathetic, lowly creature.
It’s sad for me. I look at feminists ranting about the superiority of women and I feel like throwing up. I look at the white knights sucking up to every girl they meet, and reinforcing their bitchiness, and I cringe. I look at the people in positions of power, that clearly hold women in contempt because of all the things I mentioned, but pretend like they give a crap about gender diversity, and I feel sick. And lastly, of course, I look at the laws and processes that are in place at various companies, and even legally, that are essentially affirmative action for women, granting them free passes to various things because they have vaginas. And this sickens me more then perhaps anything else on this list.
Yes, there are some women that I like. Just are there are some men that I like. You get a human that’s 51% decent and 49% disgusting, and I’ll take it as a friend any day. But the vast majority struggle with getting a 1% decency rating.
Humanity is grotesque. Someone please let me out of this circus.