eyes wide open

I, for one, am glad this will be your last post, but I doubt that, as people of your ilk are easily agitated and need to lash out at those you find to be weaker, in typical coward form.

Perhaps in the time away from this site you could have learned a bit about sympathy, empathy and compassion, but apparently you didnt, and it’s probably because you just aren’t capable of those qualities, so here you are, explaining to us poor deluded folk how exactly to escape our situations. Well, thank you for your kindness, it’s so very nice you took the time to stop in and point us all in the right direction.

Now, here’s a little advice for you.

Take a moment or several to dwell on the fact that everyone is different. What you understand today may take me, or another person, much longer to grasp. Change, while being the sole universal constant, is not easily attainable. Yes, change can make quite a difference, and it is achieved through action. Rarely has effective life changing action been succesfully implemented through brow beating or condescension, as you blindly assume is the case. Look up “positive reinforcement techniques”, you stand to learn quite a bit from the concepts of initiating change through positive techniques. But be warned, it will require empathy and compassion, so put on your thinking cap up there in your ivory tower, you’ll need it.

So let’s see how you handle my comment. Will you lash back at me and I form me that in your now enlightened state, you scoff at me, or will you now, as a motivated recipient of the benefits of change simply move on, away from the sad cases you seek to pull from the mire of depression with the ropes of your very boring and trivial wisdom?

Or maybe you’ll just go away. The latter would suffice.