I feel really sad about the fact that some of my “friends” that I used to spend the most time with are starting to dislike me for the fact that I actually feel better these days. Ye. Like people get used to you being their depressed punching bag who doesn´t stand up for himself and when you actually gain some self respect they start to act differently towards you like if you were actually being an asshole to them… You know what? fuck you. I will just find some other people to talk to.. No point in being friends with people that want you to feel like shit.
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You don’t have to be friends with them anymore. But when they see you happier. Resentment, hatred and envy at what you have and they don’t. Is how they feel.
i am going through the same thing. it is taking almost every once of energy that i have, but i i am realizing that it is a marathon. i have the power in my dysfunctional family situation, and i plan on keeping it to further my agenda; that being to not allow them to continue to place me in the sick role. if you can’t or don’t want to cut them out of your life, i would suggest to you to take back your power, and try to navigate the friendships/ relationships on your terms. the ultimate goals would be to achieve balance, self esteem, respect, and set
lf confidence. it’s not easy, by any means, but it has been working for me thus far. inner- strength is the key, and to tap into it to achieve your goals.
yeah it’s a shame people are like that, they want to feel better by putting you down, these are weak people, either get away from them or tell them i’m so glad everyday when i wake i’m me and not you otherwise i’d really be screwed!