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The only person I cared about left

by blankbanshee

I told my ex a few weeks ago I had met someone else as me and him have been apart for over a year now, best friends. He told me today he’s met someone, except he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. I thought we’d be best friends forever, but of course a friendship with an ex has its problems. I thought ifI marry that boy.

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AXYZ 5/6/2019 - 5:29 pm

A friendship with an ex definitely has problems, especially when you start to see other people. It’s not really fair to the new people you are seeing, nor is it fair to you. I think you should try your best to move forward, focus on the new person you’re seeing, and if it’s a good match, try building something better than what you had with the other guy.

heartlessviking 5/6/2019 - 7:12 pm

I lost a close friend a month ago. She was my longest term best friend, and there was some attraction there just never at convenient times. We really connected, I was able to be vulnerable with her in a way that I’ve not found outside of therapy. I felt understood, and in a word loved. I guess I loved her too. As a friend, as someone I was attracted to, it kind of stopped mattering. I was glad for her company, and sad to see her go.

Yesterday the pain got deeper, missing her, missing being close to someone in that way. I just refuse to replace her, it would be shameful to the memory of our time together. Someday I’ll make new close friends, but they’ll never have what we had. I’m old enough to remember what I had with past people I cared for, no one ever replaces anyone, it’s always just a sweet memory and a sad goodbye.

WITHINtheShadows 5/8/2019 - 12:28 am

It’s really bad when your best friend is your boyfriend or former boyfriend and things end.

You get so lost…

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