Every one of us on here had a biological father who either put us in harms way or mated with someone who would, with few exceptions.
I get this happy father’s day greeting every year, many times over. I appreciate the well wishes but deep down the very idea of the holiday troubles me. I am on here due to childhood issues attributable to a father with poor judgement and those issues are still in the works of being resolved.
For that reason I never should have reproduced. Never. Just call it Father’s Guilt Day.
A real happy father’s day would have to be prepared for before mating. The holiday is presumptuous just by it’s name alone.
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Wait…. It’s father’s day?
I never remember it on my own either. Wikipedia says it is the third Sunday in June, so yeah, this must be the day. Ugh.
Wait? IT’S THE THIRD SUNDAY IN JUNE????!!!!?~!?~~?~~?~?~
Uhhhhh it is…. I would never have realized that…. But it’s like the 16th…. What is wrong with June? xD
I’m sorry you feel that way, my father wasn’t perfect but I had to forgive him, I’m am not a father unless you consider cats my kids, in which case they bite me because they love me?
I call them love bites. I try to be keen on not over stimulating the cat in case that bite has that meaning instead, but yeah cats and a dog are my dependents now.
Ha ha, They are love bites, they get bored and want to play, what else could they do? They are the only one’s that can get away with such violence!
I know. I had not even an inkling of this day of “celebration” until I saw a text from a relative. It is a positive and kind act she did but I see little reason for celebration. Fatherhood is result, a consequence, all too often, of one or more people being careless.
Thanks you did remind me, I have to call, and I completely agree with you, I was very careful.
While growing up I seen lots of things, divorces of my friends parents, financially ruining lives, playing against each other, kids playing it up, daddy no.1 daddy no.2 , I decided I wanted no part of that, I actually don’t know of any marriages of any friends in my generation that worked. I also didn’t want to be responsible for bringing another into this mess. Funny how I figured that out so young.
if your father didn’t help create you, then you wouldn’t be here helping other people. i know that he had poor judgement, but in my opinion, making YOU was a gift to all who are now fortunate to have the deepest pleasure of your company.
SO THERE!
XOXOXOXO
Ohh father, why did you planted the seeds of fertilization into my mother, ooh why couldnt u be satisfied with only a daughter and a son. Im the last to come into this world and the first to go out
Aw Spookichick, that is so so kind of you to say. I will do my best for others because after all, I am here.