So I have this “friend”. We’ll call her Jane. So for Jane’s birthday in February I bought her concert tickets for us to go to. It was her favorite artist and the concert was in San Francisco, which is about an hour and a half to two hours away. So since it was her birthday I wasn’t gonna make her drive up there. I drove and we had a great time. My birthday came about a month later and she got me concert tickets as well but it was a band I didn’t really listen to. I’ve only listened to one of their songs and that’s it. I felt like the concert was more for her than It was for me. The concert was in Santa Cruz which is probably also an hour and a half from where we lived. So I assumed that she was going to drive since I drove for her. Keep in mind that she has a brand new 2019 car that she got handed to her. And I have a very old car that I shouldn’t really be driving long distances with cause something will break down. I do often spend a lot of money trying to maintain it while saving up for a better car. I’m also the one that always drives long distances whenever we hang out. It never alternates between us. So when the day of the concert came up she asked me If I was driving and I said that really didn’t want to. And she said that she needed an oil change on her car so she can’t drive it because she “exceeded the miles” before getting changed. I think this is such a stupid excuse because I’ve exceeded the miles before getting an oil change and nothing bad happens. She acts like her car is going to explode. Part of me didn’t even want to go anymore because the more I thought about it the more I realized…. I’m driving an hour and a half away from home, to see a band that I don’t even listen to. I dont understand how she said it was a present for me cause it wasn’t. We get to the concert venue and I found parking. I had to pay for the parking. But the parking only goes up to 8pm. And I knew the concert wasn’t going to end until 11. We found a restaurant to eat at down the street. I had to buy her dinner cause she “forgot” her money. After we go to the concert, and she magically pulls out money to buy merchandise. I did not have a good time at all. I don’t even know why I went. After the concert, I was walking towards the exit. And I assumed she was behind me but wasn’t. And I waited 10 minutes before she decided to come out. She told me some guy asked for her number and she gave it to him …….. even though she’s in a relationship. So we walked back to my car and came back to the icing on the cake. A 75$ parking ticket. How nice. I spent 45$ on gas to drive an hour and a half away to go to a concert to see a band I don’t listen to, pay for parking, buy her dinner, watch her hoe herself out, and come back to a parking ticket. Some birthday present. After this is I didn’t see a point in hanging out with her anymore because all she does is take and take and take. And she asked me a few months later if I wanted to go to a concert to see a band I actually liked and I said maybe. And she asked if I could buy the tickets. And I said “I’ll buy the tickets if you drive” the venue is in San Francisco as well. And she said she can’t drive in San Francisco because she gets anxiety. Like fucking christ she’s such a child. She’s been driving way longer than I have and she says that she gets scared driving in a city that SHE’S NEVER ACTUALLY DRIVEN TOO. And I said that it was not a hard city to navigate through and she said that if its such a big deal that she’ll just go with someone else to the concert. Okay whatever. I really need new friends.