Hey, I’ve been depressed since as far as I can remember, and I can’t make any friends. This is boooring! Some people hang out with me sometimes, but only to feel good about themselves, trying to socialize with a loner. That doesnt even make me feel bad “okay with not being okay” pretty hard to describe. So screw being polite or friendly, since I’m basically unlovable. Being agressive and hateful is easier; and way more fun. Does any of you experience this? Having a b s o l u t e l y n o o n e for you?
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“Being aggressive and hateful is easier; and way more fun.”
I’m not like that, but I still have fun, You attract more people to be around you when your not that way.
I’m not telling you how to be that’s just my thoughts, However if the people around you are like that then have a ball.
Not true. Being friendly gives me the same result: I’m being ignored.
Well I hate that too! Being ignored is like being rejected nobody likes that feeling.
Yep so whats the point of being nice if I get ignored then
You give what you get!
If your not nice to people, you will surely stay lonely. You will be surprised how far a smile and a friendly talk will get you. Dont try to make friends with the popular people, look for someone else who could use a friend, for surely you are not the only lonely person in the world.
Seems to me, fixing the depression should be number one. It will make you feel better (about yourself), make you a happier person, and nicer to be around.
Try not to focus on yourself when you are around people. How bad you feel, how lonely you are. How people are just there to feel goud about THEM (wich i cant really believe). try focussing on the other. Ask about how they are, what they do and on. Everybody likes it if someone takes interest. Stop gulping in that depression and self pity. It will help.
I like it being alone personally, but the sheer force and amount of the populations surrounding me still françly freaks me out. Is there any logical reason there are that many of those clones? Lol. How to enjoy such a bland life with all those sillies. Sometimes I get upset thinking about how I miss out when I am alone on learning new things and social skills, the one thing I do miss about companionship is somehow the feeling like someone is waiting for you like you don’t just have a wide gap full of empty space. Or you can learn together as you go. Unfortunately, time takes a toll and everyone ends up generally living, feeling, thinking alone. I feel myself being short of happiness without some gentle push of companionship. Sometimes when I get high I will practice feeling positively connected to all life’s and like we aren’t so seperate after all and still learning together as a society, a nation, or globular even.