Is it just me?

It seems like every time my loved ones try to be “helpful” they just do the complete opposite. Like last night i was talking to my friend saying im probably going in for an xray on my chest and head and an mri and i dont want to because i already had like 5 xrays. (I lost count but its really close to there…maybe 6 idk) his idea of helping me was telling me that other people are in the hospital a lot more often. And i bring up my memory problem with him and he says my memory doesnt seem that bad but it feels like every time i turn around im repeating something or saying i dont remember. I know they are just trying to be helpful but it really doesnt feel like it. And this morning my husband was less then helpful saying something about stress and having a heart attack so i basically disappeared for 5 hours and my goodbye was “yep blame everything on me” i really do seem hopeless. Everything thats suppose to help just makes me worse. Be it my “support group”, therapy, medication, music, likes, whatever…none of it helps me. I havent found a single thing and ive been searching for years. The mri was my idea though. I figured it would give my psychiatrist some insight into what hes working with and maybe give us answers and a direction, but that doesnt mean i like the idea. The 2 xrays is my husbands idea. Somwthing about a breathing problem where i occasionally randomly gasp for air and what most humans can do without a problem will leave me like i just ran a marathon. The other one it too make sure i havent done any damage to my head after hiting it on walls.