Its all my fault

look, hear me out. you can’t “accidentally” assault someone. it’s a conscious choice to violate someone’s boundaries, and it’s never the victim’s fault. even if you trusted and chose him, that doesn’t equal consent. he was the one who decided to take advantage of you. no good person would ever think that hurting someone like that is justifiable.

I don’t know the details, obviously, and I won’t pretend that I know better than you. but don’t beat yourself up over it. even if the other guy wasn’t at fault, the blame doesn’t automatically transfer to you. it’s hard to know what to do in that kind of situation, and making mistakes sometimes doesn’t mean you’re a monster. you deserve to be treated better than that.