people who say fake it till you make it have never actually experienced that feeling of not being heard or being unimportant in a group of people. what do u mean act confident unril you feel it?
I feel confident, its not like i try to be quiet. but i guess i just have those vocies that are easily ignored. I can be as confident as I can be but i still get ignored, even when im being loud ive just got those vocies that wash into the background noise.
so fake it till you make it doesnt work.
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I think I can relate to what you said there a lot. And it is somewhat of a mystery for me of how it is that when some people speak everyone listens, and when others do, no one pays attention. Maybe is charisma, maybe it’s due to problems with diction, enounciation, delivery of what we try to say, but it’s certainly true that it exists.
When it comes to fake it till you make it phrase, yeah for me it just seems like dumb lazy advice most of the time
Yh I agree so so so much, like in the end its a matter of whether people want to listen to you and how much charisma you have and stuff :// but it’s so annoying when people think you’re shy and unconfident but really they just choose to ignore u