I have decided to stay away from relationships and focus on myself.Then this guy comes out of nowhere.We’ve had conversations and it’s like somehow,I had fallen for him.Next thing I knew,we were talking about sex and it’s like the heat of the moment kind of thing.This morning to my shock,I found out he’s moved on to his “someone special.”It crushed me.I actually trusted him.Made me feel likeÂ trash the way he did me.After that experience,I realize that I’m through with love.Seems like all men wantÂ is sex.I can’t take anymore heartbreak.
So there’s this guy that I’m into.He made out that he really liked me and we seemed to be doing okay until we had an argument.I thought we were okay because he got over it.Then next thing I know,he’s avoiding me.I confronted him and now he doesn’t want to talk to me.I know that I didn’t do anything wrong.Why do guys love to treat me like crap?Do I deserve this?
Yesterday,my cat died and I know I’m prob being silly for being this sad over an animal,but she meant a lot to me.I love her so much.It’s like she left with a piece of my heart.I’d do anything to hold my cat one last time.I feel so alone and heartbroken.It would help out a lot to get some imput from someone that experienced this kind of tragedy.Please.
As I look around,everyone’s so happy with their significant other.Either their engaged,married,happily dating,etc.I’m trying to start dating again,but I mostly run into guys that want sex and that’s not what I want.I want to have a happy,long relationship for once.I just want something in my life to be happy about.I know that no relationship is perfect,but it sucks being the one that’s single most of the time.You know?Even my ex that broke my heart is happy.Why do good girls like me get heartbroken?I’m honestly about to give up.
Hey guys,I haven’t really been this open about my problems,but I feel like I need to find emotional support.Here’s what’s going on:First of all,there was this guy that I really cared about.We dated a little over a month.When we first talked,I actually thought that he was such a good guy when I didn’t even know that it was an act.Anyway,around the last part of the month,he didn’t see me for two whole weeks when he usually stops by every week.He told me one night that he was done looking for someone because he found me.So,I gave him the benefit of a doubt that he was actually working late like he said he was.Then,the day when he came by,I thought that we were going to work out the problems we were having.I was wrong:he broke up with me.He wanted us to be “friends” for now,but some friend he was.He didn’t even bother to be there for me when I needed him.He didn’t make an attempt to go to my graduation.He even lied saying that he was in another state the past week.Funny thing was the day of my graduation,we passed by his work place.He was there.We got into two bad arguments.We’re not speaking anymore.What really bothers me was that I was really into him and for him to treat me like that,made me feel worthless to him.It hurts when he’s in my dreams because that tells me that I still care about him.Now,I feel like I’m done with love and no other guy would ever care about me.I can’t feel happy anymore after what happened.I strongly have this urge to either strangle myself or stab myself in the heart.I just want this pain to be over.Please,help me.