I was thinking about this topic, as a person with borderline personality disorder I’ve heard lots of relationships advice, and about self improvement and getting better before dating, and loving myself etc.
And honestly part of me sometimes still feels like I’m scamming people into getting attatched to me so they can suffer like it has happened and like how bpd stigma says it does.
And it makes sense in a way for a healthy dating environment that it’s in the best interest of everyone to date mentally healthy people, but there was this person I dated many years ago that I still think is the […]