every living creature on this earth dies alone.
well im trying to deal with this grief business (thanks to some advice from some very intelligent members here), not very successfully i might add, but then again whats successful grief? in an attempt to feel closer to my friend, when im alone i reread her emails, posts and messages. then i start to think about things i didnt or should’ve said. maybe it might have made a difference….. maybe not. all this is really doing is releasing the endless stream of tears i seem to have, which never dry up. i know she wouldnt want me to be like this, & i dont […]
sydney. australia .
petersham (my suburb)
32 fucking degrees (Celsius )
no air con.
hell aint this hot n sticky.
well its coming up to 6 weeks since my favourite person in the world died. it was so hard at the start. i still at times dont really believe she has died. anyway it was getting easier, i wasnt crying so much anymore , even seeing her picture or hearing her songs. then yesterday out of the blue it all hit me again. i spent every minute that i was alone yesterday in tears. at work im distracted and its all i can think of.
i havent dealt with grief in my life before to any great extent, so i dont get this.
anyone have any ideas […]
i dont believe in fairytales ,
& dreams do not come true,
everything turned black n white,
the day that I lost you…
sometimes i wake up and get to thinking that i have gone past my expiry date. for as long as i can remember i always just expected to be dead by this time in my life. not necessarily from suicide, couldve been anything. but i just have this feeling like i missed my time and now im destined to live each day with this knowledge . i know there is an option, of course, but i think it is actually alot harder to commit suicide than most people think (me included). so i guess im just gonna keep going, living life a second at a […]
seriously that is the best fucking news i have had in ages. i have been thinking about you and wondering how you were traveling.. what is it 13 days ! !! thats so amazing. for an addict like us to go one day is a miracle but 13… shiiiiiit. you killing it. you should be proud of urself. all u need now is to change ur user name to ‘notshootmeup’.
if the zoloft is helping keep on it untill ur ready. i been on lexapro (which is pretty mild) for ages. it helps with the anxiety and depression .
im still reducing off methadone, on 90mg now. […]
grief is defined as: intense sorrow, especially caused by someones death.
now, im trying to work out if one can feel grief for a person who has died even though they have never met, in real life.
a very close online friend died recently, not by suicide, which is ironic in itself given that we met here and connected on our chosen preferred method of suicide. what followed was an amazingly close but short lived friendship. we had everything in common, we chatted every day and exchanged everything from pics to videos of us playing music. truly the most amazing person i have met in my 40 […]
well technically an ex junky , but no less baffling. here i am, 40years old. finally doing the right things in my life. not using drugs, working all the time, basically trying to be a good human. when i meet someone who is destined to change my life, which they did. im talking about someone who is so much like the other half of me its not even funny. a person who was dealt a shit hand in the early part of life but didnt get all twisted and fucked up, instead decided to do whatever they could to help people who went thru a […]
i just feel like i should post this here as this is where i met u. im sorry that u lost ur short battle with cancer. im sorry all the shit that befell u in ur short but amazing life. im sorry that u had to pass in a hospital alone. im sorry i couldnt be there with u at the end.
i am however glad that i met u. u changed my life in ways u will never know. every time we spoke u shone ur light in my little dark corner of the world and made it just a bit more beautiful. im glad […]
i have such a love hate relationship with this place. i love it because its made me feel at home, a part of, & has given me some really cool people in my life. if only briefly. it has also made me feel not so alone at times, which as u all know really helps. so thank you.
but… i hate it so much at times. every time someone amazing decides to ctb it fucking breaks my heart just a bit more. i know its a suicide site… i get it. i do. but when it happens im reminded of how fragile it all is, & […]
“for you will bend & tell me that you love me,
and i shall sleep in peace untill you come to me.”