ALL MY COMMENTS ON THE SITE ARE HERE, except the last thread. TELL ME WHERE ARE THE INSULTS (they say I insulted many people) FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:03 pm You have emotional problems, I can feel it. Emotional problems can often be cured, don’t worry. There are coaches for this. Guys I need advice View Post 5 5 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:00 pm I wouldn’t have smiled to this guy, because I don’t know how to smile. I never smile when I’m not happy. This Broke My Heart View Post 5 5 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 11:59 am I’m here. bored. View Post 13 13 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 11:57 am | In reply to Delisnak. Sorry, it deleted my story, I rewrote it. You can read now. I don’t like people anymore View Post 21 21 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 11:33 am Sometimes it’s an hormonal problem in the brain, may be fixed with some plants medication, sometimes it can be fixed with coach or EMDR therapy. And sometimes it’s because we fail everything in life, and are alone, in this case, therapy doesn’t help. I bought a weapon today View Post 8 8 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 11:30 am It is known that smoking weed make dark circles under the eyes as it make some organs exhausted, if you smoke occasionally the dark circles will be gone in a few days. If you smoke often, it stays. Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 2:02 pm Chat has ended? bored. View Post 13 13 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 1:51 pm | In reply to operationmintyhippo. Have you got some example? You’re right, friendly conversations. I’m so disgusted than I don’t go out from my house anymore, I was very open, and talkative, and now, if I see another human beings, it’s hard for me, I’m so convinced I’m a piece of shit for him or her, bad looking, not interesting, nothing. I don’t like people anymore View Post 21 21 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 1:46 pm | In reply to operationmintyhippo. I think you need a therapy to learn to be yourself without shame. Afterwards, bad ideas could maybe go. Tell Me How I Am View Post 22 22 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 1:45 pm | In reply to operationmintyhippo. You’re right, people are afraid of people who are depressive, but what I try to explain is that you have contradictions in your story. You try very hard to seems perfect, and people believe you, because your a good actor, and so, you are sad because people believe you. I don’t think your sister could ask you how you feel, because she is depressed, and when you are depressed, you are centered on your suffering. I guess depressed and sad people can’t ask this, happy people can’t ask this, because everything is fine for them, they don’t know how you feel when you are unhappy, and other people are just selfish, they don’t care about other feeling good or bad. In your story, I see reasons for your depression, I disagree with the people who says you have everything, if amother drink for instance, it makes big wounds. Tell Me How I Am View Post 22 22 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 1:39 pm It’s so obvious that it’s cliché. Of course suicidal persons don’t want to die, they want to stop the suffering, and to stop the nonsense of their life. Like their struggle do nothing, they want to end the source of the nonsense and suffering. Suicidal though is not an addiction, when I feel loved and I feel I can reach my goals, I’m not suicidal at all. They are not just though. It’s true when you have only though, not when it’s hell to live one more day everyday. I had a lot of therapy, and not one had been effective. The only effective thing would be for me to have a loving family, friends, etc, and not a therapist can give me. A Few Things that Might Make Sense View Post 16 16 comments No Mf Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 1:18 pm Your friends didn’t act in a good way by treating you like that, but they do make a point (even if they got it somewhat lost in translation), since living a life of repressing and hiding things isn’t good for anyone (either you or the ones who surround you). Like FrenchyGirl mentioned above, people meet the you that you show them, so it’s no wonder they’ll call you fake when they start seeing through it. Now, don’t get me wrong, you had perfectly good reasons to do so (and it’s not an attack on my part), but in the long run it will only damage you even further. You did good by looking for help, but your local doctor has no idea of what he’s talking about, you can suffer from anxiety or depression at your age, but a therapist could be able to help you in a better form (without dismissing your problems like your local doctor did). Your family is likely suffering from issues as well, so maybe it’s not that they don’t care or are selfish, but there’s so much that you can handle at once. Maybe try talking to them, and start acting like you really feel like (without overdoing it tho, if you feel like killing everyone, don’t! haha). You have to be honest with yourself first, before others can appreciate you for what you really are. Tell Me How I Am View Post 22 22 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:53 pm People who don’t care about other people story have nothing to do here. I see communication problems in your story. The friends who says “we hate you” had probably big problems themselves, like you had. Imagine you are very unhappy, and you see someone with the dream life you wanted, and the person says: “I don’t want this life”. But the person wears a mask and none knows it. You was the person wearing the mask, though thing like anorexia, so don’t be surprised people bought into your fake life, you acted, you played a role, and you was a good actor. So people saw only the acting. Your sister can’t help you if she is in depression, like you can’t help none. You says to your sister: “hey, I’m not well”, but she wanted you to say: “hey, why aren’t you well?” So, it’s another communication problem, the same one than the first one. People doesn’t hate you, it’s only a way to say you hurt them. You have the right to be depressed, nobody can tell you you have the right, or you haven’t the right to be depressed, they only can reply emotionnally (not rationnally) Your life is not perfect, but you wanted other people to think that. Let them see that the paint on the wall is decaying. Let them see the real you. Or they only see the fake you. Your doctor maybe be a good doctor, but is not a therapist, depression has no age, there are depressive young child (I have been one of them, so I KNOW) Stop saying, everything seems, everything seems… People sees the “seems”, but you know the reality. The big problem I can see in your story, it’s that nobody ask how you feel, BUT you don’t ask other people how they feel. People are selfish with you, because they are suffering, but you are selfish with them too, for the same reasons. Tell Me How I Am View Post 22 22 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:39 pm | In reply to Mf. You can make long reply if you want. I will read it with pleasure. I don’t think that selfishness is a good thing, we have to be selfish, because everyone is, but in a world of helpful people, we wouldn’t have to. It took me a long time to realize people try to take advantage of everything, they help you only if they think they can get an advantage, I never helped people for this reason, the advantage I took is that it made me feel good to help people, it was like helping myself. When helping someone, I shoud say to myself:, don’t you have been hurted enough? You want more? Help the person only if you know he or she would do the same at your place. I’m sure the reply will always be “no”. I like doing things for free, because love is free. If you love or help, you don’t have to wait for something in return. But it hurts really too much. I’d like to be hard and insensitive, only interested by myself, it’s the only way to be happy. I don’t like people anymore View Post 21 21 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:32 pm You’re lucky to have a job (not for the 10 hours). I understand how you feel about the repetitive day, and finding another job may be hard nowadays. What kind of life would you like to have? What kind of job? bored. View Post 13 13 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:29 pm | In reply to FrenchyGirl. She hates me because she has been anorexic, and when she was pregnat she get some weight because of me. She always told me how a pregnant woman seemed disgusting to her. She hates me also because my grand-father loved me very much, and she was very jealous, because she though my grand-father loved me more than her. So I was very much hated, but I’m sure she never realized that she hated me, it’s not conscious. I don’t like people anymore View Post 21 21 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:26 pm | In reply to Delisnak. If your therapist doesn’t help, you have to change your therapist. You can change several times, until you have the good one. Therapist is like a lover, you have to choose the one you like. I don’t like people anymore View Post 21 21 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:23 pm | In reply to GoldIsntInfinite. If they can’t love you, forget them. I forgot my mother, she is nothing for me now, I have NO mother. I don’t like people anymore View Post 21 21 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:21 pm | In reply to joinel. You’re right too. Two things, looks and money. Other things don’t exist. If you are ugly with no money, life is not for you. money matters View Post 11 11 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:20 pm I agree, if you have no money and can’t find a job, there are nothing in life for you. I want to die. money matters View Post 11 11 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:19 pm Why are you bored? How do you image a not boring life? bored. View Post 13 13 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:18 pm | In reply to Delisnak. Why do you think you are not interesting? I’m not interesting myself, I can deduce it from other people behaviour, but I don’t know why. I don’t like people anymore View Post 21 21 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:16 pm | In reply to Delisnak. You can’t find family. I have no dad, no brothers, no sisters, no cousins, and I don’t want to see my mother anymore, because she always had been hating me. A therapist told me “Why is your mother jealous of you?”. I think I can figure why, and as a result, she tried very hard to achieve this goal: being right when she says I’m nothing but a shit, and people should admire her, because she has a lot of courage for being the mother of a big shit like me. When I had friends, she looked in my stuff to find the phone numbers, and called my friends to say awful things about me. She hoped my friends to be disgusted of me. She made that 3 or 4 times. Each time, my “friends” said: your mother called me, I don’t know why, I don’t know her, she told me that you are not a good person. She made the same at school, with my teachers, and with my bosses. She is probably very happy now, because I am alone, and if I kill myself, she will say: “Hey, people, I told you my daughter was crazy, so I am a very courageous woman”. I don’t like people anymore View Post 21 21 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:07 pm Other people would only describe my personality with insults. As I know nobody who sees good things in me. I know there are good things in me, but I’m the only one to see them. 5 words to describe your personality? View Post 25 25 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:06 pm What do you want to talk about? Life? Death? bored. View Post 13 13 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 12:05 pm | In reply to Delisnak. You are lucky to have never liked people, it’s better, because I had to learn to not love them to protect myself, I was hard. How do you feel about other people? Why don’t you like them? Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:36 pm | In reply to copelessness. That’s a pity we can’t go together, we could be friends, because we know how we feel. But I’m in Europe, so it’s very far. i really need to talk to someone right now View Post 46 46 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:35 pm | In reply to copelessness. Do you think you are ugly, badly dressed, not interesting? That people are scornful or may not appreciate you? i really need to talk to someone right now View Post 46 46 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:34 pm | In reply to zalien. I hope they will add it ! It definitely missing there !! I don’t know how to suggest them. How can I see all my posts? View Post 15 15 comments R Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:33 pm | In reply to zalien. It’s not today comments, that’s the problem. How can I see all my posts? View Post 15 15 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:32 pm Why are you a monster? Tell me the smallest thing you want to change in yourself. The end? View Post 4 4 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:30 pm I’m looking for a way to see all my comments (not my posts, my comments) I don’t know if it’s related to your question. Comments list broken? View Post 19 19 comments No Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:27 pm | In reply to Tristeza. It doesn’t work, because it shows only the posts I’ve started. I know which post I’ve started, I was chatting with other depressed people, and I need to know if they wanted to reply back to my messages, on posts from other authors than me. How can I see all my posts? View Post 15 15 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:25 pm Yes, train method is a NO NO. It’s ok only if you don’t care about being disabled for life. And hurting innocent train drivers for life. One of the main reasons I decided AGAINST the train method View Post 17 17 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:23 pm Can you explain better your story? Save me from myself View Post 13 13 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:22 pm I’m here. People hates depressed people, but depressed people here can hear and understand you. We all feel the same. Alone. Lost. Too soft and sensitive for this world. Save me from myself View Post 13 13 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:13 pm | In reply to copelessness. I don’t deal with it. I have no job, and it’s very difficult for me to go out from my flat, even to buy something. When I go out, I’m sure I am the most ugly creature in the street, and that everyone is full of scorn for me. I know it may be in my head, but I really feel like an ugly creature. When I talk to peole, I’m certain to be the less interesting creature on earth. It’s worse and worse. I have no friends, no job, so the more I stay at home, the more difficult it’s to go out. I don’t recommend you to stay at home, it you can have some friends, try to go out the more you can. i really need to talk to someone right now View Post 46 46 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:11 pm I had severe acne too. I can help you to heal from that. Sometimes it’s long, but I’m sure you can. I had severe acne, not because of hormons, but because of stress, and it was a mean my body told me that I wasn’t able to accept myself. And I had very bad scars, because I was touching my acne wounds and making them worse. I was better the day I learned how to use concealing creams. My story View Post 6 6 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:07 pm Being cheated and especially at school, happens to everybody. Don’t do it for a girl, it’s useless. I can tell you because I’ve been seduced several times by the idea of ending my life for a boy, but it’s not good reason, because you always meet someone else. Sometimes it takes a very long time, when you were deeply in love, but I swear there are no love pain that lasts all your life, it’s impossible. It never happens to nobody on earth. My love pain lasted several years, but one day I realized my love was gone. The person didn’t worth my pure and strong love. If you kill yourself for someone, it’s useless, because she doesn’t worth your love. It’s not a good way to show someone we love him or her, because always think we make that for other reason, or because we are insane. Dying for love is always a emotional and impulsive act. You are a handsome young man, because you managed to have a girlfriend, for some people, it’s very hard, but you achieved it, you can seduce girls. There is a lonely girl in the world who needs your love. Don’t abandon her. My story View Post 6 6 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 8:58 pm Lonelybone, what did happen? Done. View Post 8 8 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 8:57 pm Don’t jump on a train, it’s not a good method. The risk of disabilities are too high. I’m nervous as hell View Post 9 9 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 8:55 pm | In reply to Mf. Try indian Hoppi candles for your ear wax, it works very well. Do you know what they are? i really need to talk to someone right now View Post 46 46 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 8:54 pm You can talk to me. I’m socially anxious also. i really need to talk to someone right now View Post 46 46 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 2:25 pm A mentally person who question his sanity is in the way to recover. Am I Insane? I used to think not, but now I am not so sure.. View Post 2 2 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 2:15 pm What was the suicide prevention association, to avoid me to call them. I don’t understand all the dramatic stuff, it looks like a psycho stuff. How Not to Kill Yourself (Exit Bag/ Hanging attempt) View Post 7 7 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/20 at 2:05 pm | In reply to 1bigzero. It’s virtual. There are a lot of interesting guys on the internet, but nobody in real life. I also need a job, an a lot of money, because I’m so ugly that I can’t go out from my house. If I had money I would go on surgery, and buy good clothes to be a decent person. Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:18 pm | In reply to YuTasogare. I think I’m maybe autistic too. I’ve never been diagnosed, maybe I’m not, but it’s certain I have autistic features. I don’t know how much you need to be diagnostised “autist”, but anyway, it’s nothing but labels on people’s head. I feel the same, too sensitive, and bullied a lot at school. Have you been diagnosed high IQ? It could explain a lot of thing also. Save me from myself View Post 13 13 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:15 pm | In reply to YuTasogare. I’m so happy to have helped you even a little. It comforts me a lot when I’m a little useful to other people. Yes, we can chat privately if you want. There is a lot of interesting people here, I’m surprised, because it has been a long time since I met sensitive people. Everyone outside seems so insensitive and only worried by themselves. It’s the reason why I abandoned the idea to have new friends. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:10 pm Hey, I would like to make a google group for socially anxious people like us. I subscribed to google groups about suicide, but they are full of trolls. i really need to talk to someone right now View Post 46 46 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:09 pm | In reply to copelessness. I understand you 10000 % I wish to help you to be better. I’m unable to be physically decent, but I’m often good to give some advice to other people. Sometimes having a better haircut makes the difference, (I don’t say in your case, I talk in general), healing the skins, etc. It’s weird how I am good to help other people, but totally unable to help myself, even very slightly. i really need to talk to someone right now View Post 46 46 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:05 pm | In reply to YuTasogare. You’re not happy pretending to be someone else, so, what do you lost by being you? It’s not risky, you don’t have the risk to be unhappy, you already are ! So there’s no risks ! We are so many people sad here, with people outside who don’t give a fuck about us, if we could help each other, maybe we can get to have better life? Why should I live? View Post 9 9 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:02 pm | In reply to YuTasogare. You look like me Yu, you are very concerned by other people. I don’t think you should feel guilty for your dad’s depression, but guilty is often something very emotional, and not very rational. . When you live with someone, you forget you live with the person. I don’t know if you undestand what I mean. If you visit your father often, you can help him, and it will be probably better than staying with him. He will be happy at each of your visit. So you can help him a lot, and live your own life. You can make both. But you can’t heal your father, you can only help him, sometimes a little, sometimes a lot, it dependds, but that’s all. You have to accept it. Do you know why he is depressed, and is he trying to heal himself, with a psychologist, with activities, etc? Where are you from? Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:56 pm | In reply to YuTasogare. I can’t make new friends, because now I distrust everyone. When you love your friends, and you are betrayed, or not loved, you are hurted, and it’s as if you was saying “your friend is dead, move on, get another one”. Because something is dead in you everytime you trust people, and realize you are not loved by them the way you love them. You think: next time, I won’t give my heart like this. I had been too dumb. Just when I thought all was over View Post 17 17 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:50 pm | In reply to Schiz018. Fuck your parents, it’s better to leave them, and giving not news, never. They’ll regret that they did to you if you leave them, very far, with no news. Goodbye f’d up world. View Post 4 4 comments No YuTasogare Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:49 pm I totally agree with FrenchyGirl go after your happiness! It’s been awhile. View Post 2 2 comments Y FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:44 pm It’s a weird period in your life, but one you will be independant, you will be free. Fuck other people’s expectation, you are yourself ! Anyway, who likes perfect people: nobody. When people are too perfect, people starts to hate them. Live according to YOUR expectations. Why do you say he hates you? It’s been awhile. View Post 2 2 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:41 pm | In reply to YuTasogare. I replied to your comment Yu, on your post. View Post 5 5 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:39 pm | In reply to lonelyguy91. Yes, school was a hell for me too. But it doesn’t last all the life, one day you are free from that hell. Schools Back View Post 3 3 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:38 pm | In reply to 1bigzero. Or subscribe on each comments. But it’s pretty boring, I forget every time, and I can’t find my older comments. Maybe we could try with google site: suicideproject.org + nickname Comments list broken? View Post 19 19 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:37 pm | In reply to jules1769. Please, explain. What happens? View Post 5 5 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:36 pm I can be there for you, but I’m geographically very far. I’m scared View Post 4 4 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:34 pm | In reply to YuTasogare. People who says: “there is worse situation than you, you don’t have the right to be depressed”. It’s just stupid. So Sick of This Life View Post 6 6 comments R Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:33 pm | In reply to FrenchyGirl. I will try. And everyone interested by this, should send an email too. How can I see all my posts? View Post 15 15 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 10:32 pm It’s the case for everyone, we are condemned to be on eath without being understood. If you are loved, but not understood, you are only half miserable. Don’t expect doctors understand, it’s not their job, sometimes a psy understands, but it’s hard to find a good one who is ready to try to undestand people. I understand about how you feel to be unemployed and having a very bad mother. Why don’t you have hope for a job? Antidepressants are good for a while, but so many years, they could be one of the reasons for your depression. So Sick of This Life View Post 6 6 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:42 pm It’s good to hear that. But if they betray you? Just when I thought all was over View Post 17 17 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 9:40 pm Chips and alcohol? Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:47 am Even if you are christian, you don’t consider the earth has been created for humans, but humans are the gardeners of a garden that doesn’t belong to them. humans and the world View Post 110 110 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:31 am | In reply to YuTasogare. I’m sure you are able to understand me, and same me with you. I tried to make a google group, but I don’t think they will let me post the link here. I’m upset because I read a very sad story on this forum, and the person is dead now. I feel physically ill because of that. Just when I thought all was over View Post 17 17 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:27 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. No, it’s really unfair !!! I couldn’t be happy because she paid for other persons. People who have been rapped can recover, and take a revenge on people who make that to them. I would have know her. I’m very sad she’s gone and I didn’t had the chance to know her. She had a story much worse than mine, but she was so beautiful, she had good chances to be loved in this world. Butterflybae is gone View Post 60 60 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:24 am | In reply to ironman22. Is it a butterfly’s close relative? Kiss this person for me, I’m so upset by her death. Upset and really angry. When did it happen, and do you know how? Butterflybae is gone View Post 60 60 comments R ironman22 Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:22 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. Why not happy FrenchyGirl? She is finally out of pain, no more a prisoner to the chains that bound her here. Butterflybae is gone View Post 60 60 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:21 am | In reply to Mf. To be loved even by one person on earth is enough to live, I agree with you. All that the human beings need is love. Am I the only one to contemplate suicide based on philosophical considerations? View Post 19 19 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:20 am Excuse me if I hurt you, it’s not my goal, but all this philosophy is absurd. Dying is a matter to be alone, not loved, without job or money, very ill, or that kind of things. To feel without chance of exit. Wanting to die because of abstract ideas is stupid in my opinion (no offense) Again sorry to be judgemental, but It’s the way I feel, and if you post it is to have people speaks their mind. If you believe nothing is permanent, pain is not permanent, and ending his life is absurd in a boudhist view, because it means you don’t assume the karma you had to assume, and this karma will increase in your next life. Am I the only one to contemplate suicide based on philosophical considerations? View Post 19 19 comments R Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:05 am | In reply to a3b2c1. Thanks. I’m on Chrome, but it still interesting to know. Yeah, browser history, it’s a good idea. I don’t remember the title, but I could see all the suicideproject pages. It’ll still be very tiring. I don’t understand why they don’t have this feature. How can I see all my posts? View Post 15 15 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:03 am | In reply to liam89. No. I feel ANGRY. Sad and angry. I don’t feel happy at all. Butterflybae is gone View Post 60 60 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:02 am | In reply to Tristeza. People who have been rapped can recover. I’m so angry because the one who had to die are the persons who made that to her, not her. Butterflybae is gone View Post 60 60 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:01 am | In reply to wndozh8er. I’m not glad, I’m angry, and very very sad. Butterflybae is gone View Post 60 60 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:00 am How do you receive notice? I don’t understand how it works. Butterflybae is gone View Post 60 60 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:59 pm I read her story, and I’m so angry now. The Countdown Begins…. View Post 11 11 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:56 pm I’m so sad, because a lot of your story is like mine. My mother told me the same. I’ve been abused also, but not sexually. I’m really sad you’ve gone and I won’t never know you… Ending Before I Begin…. View Post 3 3 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:52 pm I’m so sad for her, it’s what I feel. How do you know she’s dead now? The Countdown Begins…. View Post 11 11 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:49 pm I’ve posted a link toward a google group I’ve created to chat with you, but it won’t pass the moderation it seems. Which way? View Post 5 5 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:48 pm Have you heard about “subconsciously deliberate mistake” ? In French, we call them “missed acts”. An example: you want to kill yourself, but you make a mistake, and by this mistake, other people could prevent you to kill yourself. Do you undestand what I mean? So, you made this mistake, and now they know, and now you are very very ashamed. It’s normal. And you will be better only after a while. But It’s a very good thing they reacted like that, they reacted in a clumbsy way (it’s very hard to know exactly how to behave in such situations), but they proved they do care. Let several days to pass. They are as embarassed than you, and it won’t help communication, they could act in a way even more clumbsy now, but at least, you know they do care, and they know you have problems. Which way? View Post 5 5 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:40 pm Hey, if you want to chat, I’ve made a group for socially anxious and depressed people to talk in private: https://groups.google.com/forum/#!forum/far-from-the-world Which way? View Post 5 5 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:37 pm Hey, I know Brasil is big, but you could meet each other, eventually? Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/24 at 11:36 pm | In reply to YuTasogare. I don’t know if I’m a nice person, I used to think that about myself, but nobody seems to think I have positive features in my personnality. Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:41 am | In reply to Mf. Yes population control, but not only. If you have seen soylent green, it’s the (metaphorical) goal. People who are useless –> euthanasia (encouraged). So, no choice. When something rejoice yourself, don’t think our learders are acting by altruism, it’s a good lesson from living and observing. When they do something that seems generous, there is always a dark side. Try to find the dark side. All I have planned about their progressive “steps” happend so far, so I guess I can be right this time again. Great news Article… View Post 20 20 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:35 am Why do people find Saturday Night Live funny? Only brainless idiots who have nothing to do or to think in life care about saturday night live. Why do news anchors call babies born without brains “miracles”? I don’t know what are news anchors. Give an example. Why is society so hung up on on the gay thing, yet don’t seem to worried about real threats such as pedophiles or rapists? Because pedophiles are the evil, rapists are the evil. And gay are not the evil, but gay marriage is a shit in my opinion, won’t explain here, because it needs lot of lines. Why do all people universally stop believing in mythological creatures such as the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy, and Santa, as children, but as adults still believe in God and Jesus? Because Jesus is not a myth, and there was really a man called Yeshuah, you can believe he was the Messiah, or not, but this man really existed. We can discuss of this with historical evidence. Why can’t people produce good music anymore? Because morons buy bad music, so there is no need for good music. Why do people still think that a highly advanced alien spacecraft, advanced enough to travel though the cosmos, would look like an ugly old metallic hubcap that could be brought down easily by a bolt of lightning? You’re wrong, people don’t give a fuck about that. Why are most people so content with the realities of being born, working your ass off for bosses, trying to get somewhere in life, just to die anyway? Some are like animals, they only taste the present, and some have goals in life. Why isn’t legalizing euthanasia for the terminally ill seen as a human right and a no brainier? Euthanasia will be very soon legalized, it’s planned. But there will be very bad side effect. Don’t you think our leaders are altruist? If psychology has helped so many people, than how come mental illness rates are sharply rising, instead of falling? Because there is no more family. Loving family is the bones for an individual to have a good mental health, and the second bone is solidarity between human beings. But as there is no family and selfishness everywhere, you can die in the street and nobody cares, it’s normal insanity is increasing. And the way child are educated also. Why do people feel sorry for the dead when they are incapable of suffering? We don’t have to be sorry for the dead, but for the survivors who stays here. Random Why questions Pt 1. View Post 8 8 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:26 am | In reply to disgusting. Don’t have a dream guy, there are no dream guys, there are only real guys, and you live with them, you realize they are not made of dreams. You won’t be single at 38, I’m sure you’re still a teen, because only teens dream of idealized “dream guys”. If a boy was you kind of guys, be certain no human is unique. The things that you loved in this guy, you will find it in another person, but you have to meet a lot of people, and sometimes it takes time. Love is not a dream. It’s the reason why people divorce so much, they marry dream guys and dream girls, and they end up with real persons. I lost my will View Post 10 10 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:21 am | In reply to Mf. Don’t worry, the poors will be the first people to be given euthanasia soon. Great news Article… View Post 20 20 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:51 am | In reply to ThePhilosopher. You see only your life, you don’t see the social plans they have. I don’t talk about your own exit, it’s your choice, but in the future people, and especially older people, won’t have the choice we have now. Great news Article… View Post 20 20 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:50 am Don’t jump on a train. The risk are very high to be disabled forever. And the poor train driver, you kill him at the same time. It’s too cruel !!! I lost my will View Post 10 10 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:48 am | In reply to ThePhilosopher. On the right track? Don’t you see they use us? Great news Article… View Post 20 20 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:46 am Sorry, my English is very broken. I didn’t sleep this night. learn to disappoint your* parents. Just Let Me Disappear View Post 2 2 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:45 am I don’t think you want to not exist anymore, I think you want your suffering to not exist anymore. Not the same thing. You have the same problem of many people here. You have to live, because you have to learn a great lesson from life: how to be yourself. And say FUCK to other people. It’s the reason why teenage is so difficult, because we have to learn to disappoint to parent, and still say: fuck, I disappointed you? I love you, but I don’t care, because I’m myself. You gave me birth to be myself, so you can’t prevent it. You want me as a baby, but the baby is dead, I’m a new grown up person, and even if you don’t like it, you will learn to like this new person. We can help you to be proud of the real person you are. Just Let Me Disappear View Post 2 2 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:39 am Tell us more about the reasons if you know them. I just want to die. View Post 2 2 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:37 am The problem is that people who whant to help us, suicidal people, don’t have good intention. I was sure euthanasia for very ill and disabled people was step one. Step two, depressive, step three, old people, Step four, the society will change, so if you are disabled, or ageing, or depressive or unemployed, you will be considered as a weak parasit if you don’t take your life. It’s a double-edged sword… They are not altruist, be certain of that. Great news Article… View Post 20 20 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:32 am | In reply to irrelevantpup. I know this feeling. Have you tried to make an inquiry about the forgotten events of your life? View Post 7 7 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:29 am | In reply to ThePhilosopher. The good things you made on earth remains after your death. You are nothing, you pass, but the good things you did stay. You put small seeds, and after your death, maybe some seeds can grow and become beautiful plants. Happiness in sex and money are void, empty, nothing. It’s not happiness, it’s an hobbie, a way to be distracted from life about the real meaning of life. It’s a way to spend time avoiding real questions. It’s not that everybody has, a lot of us here are100% alone. The question is: why I feel empty if I have everything? There are several replies in my opinion. – it can be physical unbalance (some cases) – Wounds we had in the past. Some of these wounds are forgotten, but they are still here. It’s the main reason in my opinion, to have people who seems to have “everything” being depressed. – the lack of goals But you are the only one who can set the goals. Happiness in not important, the most important is the goal in your life. If you have strong goals, metaphysical goals, altruist goals, all your energy in those goals (and there is so much to do on earth to fight against darkness of this world), you wouldn’t ask yourself if you are happy, when you push a car for instance, because the car has no more fuel and is on a slope, and if you don’t push the car it will hurt the children in the street below, you don’t ask yourself if you are happy, you ask yourself how to be efficient in your goal. It’s a weird modern question to ask ourselves wether we’re happy/we’re not happy, it’s a selfish question of westerners like us. Happiness doesn’t exist, only action exist. Am I the only one to contemplate suicide based on philosophical considerations? View Post 19 19 comments R irrelevantpup Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:18 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. FrenchyGirl ; I had a lot of friends and I mean I guess I do now, I know people who have cut themselves as well. That’s the thing, it eats me alive not knowing why I feel like this. I just do, and its all been built up over time. View Post 7 7 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:15 am | In reply to wndozh8er. Don’t say that. I know it can be cured. Imagine she can’t walk anymore, and is suicidal, but it’s a disease, and if you heal this disease, and she discover that she is not disabled anymore, and she can walk by herself. I know rape victims can heal. She had everything to live. Look at me, I’m ugly, I’m not beautiful like she was, and I live and she diserved 1 millions time more than me to live. She had a husband, and children. The persons who deserved to die were the persons who hurted her. It’s really unfair and I can’t manage to accept it. Thank you in reference to Butterflybae View Post 10 10 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:11 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. I would give everything (even if I have nothing) to be loved by a loving husband. To be important for someone else is one of the meaning of life. Do you feel your life as empty? If so, I can understand this feeling. I feel it very often. But if you have money, love, why don’t you set your goals? If life is meaningless for you, you can give your life for other people, it will make your life very meaningful. There are so many sad people on earth, because they have no parents, no love, no friends, etc, if you were lucky from this view, you can give back what you received. Don’t you feel full, and not empty anymore when you help someone? I feel that. I would be rich to make so many things on earth. I know it’s a personal thought, not everybody shares my view about having a rich life helping other people and doing good things to increase the good on earth, and reduce the darkness of this world. Am I the only one to contemplate suicide based on philosophical considerations? View Post 19 19 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:00 am It’s a very very good advice. People who have fucked family have to cut with them. I did it with my mother, I’m better now, but my self-esteem is still dead. negative people View Post 3 3 comments No Mf Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 2:00 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. @FrenchyGirl: That’s actually not what i said, but i do agree that a big part of being alive is related to love (either directed to others, or to yourself). I think i’ve only felt “awake” or “alive” when love has been in my life, so you might not be too far off. @ThePhilosopher: What you wrote was kinda bittersweet to read. The part about your first relationship… i could have wrote that myself (the “is that all there is?” part) since i do remember being in that exact same situation that you describe, and getting someone that understands that is not an easy task (my last relationship suffered greatly because of that). It’s not that you don’t love people enough, it’s just that you separate your mutual love from that thing that is constantly telling you “life can’t just be this”. When you try to explain it people always think that it should be enough by having them in your life, but they rarely get that it has nothing to do with them, but it’s something within yourself. Is it just something that is missing? is it that we just, as human being, have different needs? i really don’t know, and i’ve been looking for that answer as well. At some point i realized and accepted that if i had my health (and love would help as well) i could live a regular (maybe even happy life), but that “something” would always linger there. Again, thanks for sharing your story, now i feel a bit less crazy, lol. Am I the only one to contemplate suicide based on philosophical considerations? View Post 19 19 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:55 am At your age, there’s a moment where I had a lot of school friends who had pulsions to cut themselves, to make scars, it is the way teens put the tensions out when they are overhelming. I understand your feeling of emptyness, but you don’t explain in your story why you feel like this. View Post 7 7 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:50 am | In reply to ThePhilosopher. If you’re not unhappy, you can set goals to your life. If I were better, my goal would be to make the more good on this planet I could. That’s a very good goal in life. I don’t understand people who have money and who have no goals. If I weren’t poor, I would have so many goals, so many dreams, so many ways to help other people… I can’t say my opinion, because I don’t see what kind of words the person used and how. But you told us it was using words you never had, so don’t worry. I have enough.. View Post 4 4 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:44 am | In reply to wndozh8er. None says you don’t have the right. But a victim shouldn’t be punished twice, it’s too unfair. Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:42 am | In reply to wndozh8er. Dying of suicide is even more painful. I’m suicidal, but I’m aware of that. No lies to ourselves. My grandparents died in a painful way from old age. The only people I saw who suffered a lot are people who was ill from cancer of other pains or illnesses. I don’t know your grandparents suffered so much, mine wanted to live until the ends, and they were sorry to leave this life. Major depressive disorder, anxiety, a lot of people have this problem here, including me. A lot of your problem are probably linked, probably to the trauma you mentioned. Addiction and OCD, etc, are way to fight the trauma. Did you try EMDR, it’s a very efficient way to fight traumas. In some cases like rapes, it gave very good results, the victims healed. (seems incredible, but it’s true), some war rapes victims in Rwanda healed with this method. The day where you’ll have your post trauma cured, a lot of your disorder will go, except the paranoid, but this one can be kept quiet with medicine normally. Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:34 am | In reply to wndozh8er. No, mental illness is the worse “justification” for suicide, because we are victims, and the victims can’t pay twice. Why mentally ill persons want to die? I will tell you: it’s because they feel guilty of their mental illness. So they inconsciously think they have to pay for it. Society may have put that in their brain, but it’s so wrong. Mentally ill persons, like disabled persons have the right to live, it’s to other persons to make them a place in the society, it’s not up to the victims to fight to have a place. It’s just unfair. People are intolerant, and it’s why so many mentally ill persons want to die, they think they have no places in the world. Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:29 am | In reply to dirtbag. So, if you are a murderer (or rapist or pedo), yes, the world can be a better place without you, but if you are a murderer who think the world would be better without him, it means you are not psychopath, because you know what is empathy, you are not a monster, because real monsters don’t care about the world being a better place without them. So even if you murdered people, it’s not hopeless for you. So, the simple fact you think that, I know you’re wrong. I Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:25 am | In reply to wndozh8er. Dying of natural causes is not so hard nowadays, I don’t think so. What are your mental diseases? I ask it, because anyway we are all anonymous here. Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:23 am Too many useless questions, you think too much. Random why questions pt 2….the even better one! View Post 15 15 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:22 am And there is NO justification. I’m suicidal, but there’s no justification to suicide, there are only the sufferings, and they are not a justification, if suffering end up, life worth to be lived again. Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:21 am None desserve to die, there is only people who can’t deal with their suffering. But none desserve to die. I don’t think the world would be better without you, you are not a murderer or a rapist, you can still help other people. Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:19 am | In reply to wndozh8er. So, for the vet, it’s not a good guess if you don’t want him in jail. I though the same thing about the vet. What were the “lines” you crossed? Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:17 am | In reply to wndozh8er. Nobody prevents you to die. There are no policeman in front of your house. Why bother with it? View Post 13 13 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:07 am | In reply to Mf. You don’t need the full movie, the best part are in the link I send you, and the part two on youtube. It’s 10 AM here, I didn’t sleep neither, try to sleep a little. It’s good to have clear ideas. Yes, I like mustard, but the real one, from Dijon, all other ones are fake mustards, lol, and I’m in France. It’s too late to sleep here. Where are you? Great news Article… View Post 20 20 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:00 am watch?v=Yznmn5kHXBI “I comme Icare”, (English “I like Icarus”) Great news Article… View Post 20 20 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:59 am Shit, my link is awaiting for moderation. I was saying: I’ve seen 2 movies in my life, as a kid, that made my way to think different of other people of my age, it was soylent, and the second one is a French movie about the Milgram experience. I had a schock with this movie. And since this day, I always try to make my own ideas, not with other people’s opinion, and having a Descartes’ doubt about everything. If my link doesn’t pass the moderation, type after youtube url: watch? v=Yznmn5kHXBI without the space after the “?” (mods, my link is safe) Great news Article… View Post 20 20 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:56 am | In reply to Mf. I’ve seen 2 movies in my life, as a kid, that made my way to think different of other people of my age, it was soylent, and the second one is a French movie about the Milgram experience. I had a schock with this movie. And since this day, I always try to make my own ideas, not with other people’s opinion, and having a Descartes’ doubt about everything. “I comme Icare” (English: “I like Icarus”) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yznmn5kHXBI Great news Article… View Post 20 20 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:48 am | In reply to NobodyKnowsMeAndIlikeIt. Not confusing. You’re right, human beings are bad. Except maybe here, some people seems cool. Why bother with it? View Post 13 13 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:46 am I don’t understand the part where someone use your words. I have enough.. View Post 4 4 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:44 am | In reply to NobodyKnowsMeAndIlikeIt. You ‘re to severe, animals have nothing wrong. Why bother with it? View Post 13 13 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:44 am | In reply to Darvin. If you want my plate, take it, I’m not hungry anymore. View Post 30 30 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 3:43 am It depends. What’s your problem? Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:35 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. It’s not because he is a virgin that he will remain all his life if he doesn’t want. He only needs help, that’s all. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:34 am | In reply to wndozh8er. You know you can’t stop like that, the more you were on medication, the longer it is to stop, because your brain and your body are addicted, and when they lack of this drugs, they begin to send you anxiety as a sign you have to feed them with their poison. But stopping medication is possible, maybe not for your paranoid problems, but for depression it’s possible, but as long as you have your trauma, it’s not. Comfort? View Post 65 65 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:30 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. No problem for your look, I can help you, I’m a woman, and I know what is horrible, good or sexy for a woman. If it’s only your look, and you behaviour with women is good, there’s nothing that is hopeless if you’re a man. If it’s your behaviour, I can’t do nothing for you. But as you say there is no problem about it. Where do you live? What do you like in women’s? What you don’t like? So, the only problem is when they meet you? Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:24 am I don’t need to see depression or suicide stuff, I’m already sad, depressed and suicidal enough. Reflections of Depression View Post 6 6 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:23 am | In reply to joinel. So it was shit before I came? :p Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:21 am | In reply to DuZo. Same thing with suicide, you will regret it later, lol. View Post 30 30 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:20 am | In reply to Enough2015. It’s normal, medication for depression shouldn’t be taken for a long time. Comfort? View Post 65 65 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:18 am | In reply to wndozh8er. First try to fix your trauma, and second, try to have new friends, but in this order, not the second step first. Listen to me, I helped many people in my life. I can help you if you accept. If you don’t accept, don’t complain to be alone without anyone who cares. Comfort? View Post 65 65 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:11 am | In reply to hogpotter. I’m sorry for that. Your old friends are gone? Comfort? View Post 65 65 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:10 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. And do you think men treats women well with their appearance? It’s even worse. I knew many girls with guys with very poor appearance, and they were happy with them, but guys always talk about how they would be happy with the most beautiful girl they can find, that the first thing they ask to a woman is appearance. Guys are 100% hypocritical. Guys disgust me. You only look for sexy and beautiful girls, and you complain about not being the man every girls choose. How hypocritical are guys, I’m amazed. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R Select comment FrenchyGirl . Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:00 am I finally got the trick. You go to your dashboard. You click on the number of comments. You have a search box on the left, you enter your name (or anyone else’s name) And you get the comments filtered with the name. But it’s really not user friendly, since we make replies to people who are really in trouble, and they often miss them. How can I see all my posts? View Post 15 15 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 6:51 am | In reply to wndozh8er. You didn’t understand the point. The point is about healing post trauma. It doesn’t matter which one it is. If you have a trauma (or several ones) and they are big, and you suffer from mental problem from them, you can be healed with this method, because it has worked on some people who were hopeless without it. The point is not to be a male or a female, or whatever, the point is having problem because of a trauma, and according to what you said about your mental problem, almost all are from your past trauma. So it’s a method for you. View Post 30 30 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 6:44 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. This comment is really wise. I’m certain of lot of people face death to see they don’t really want to die. Comfort? View Post 65 65 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 5:27 am You are very severe with women, I don’t think we desserve it so much. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 5:20 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. No. Murdering is wrong. If they want to make the world a better place, it’s better to teach love and empathy to trauma children, so they don’t become psychopaths murderers. Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 5:15 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. Hey mods, nothing wrong in my links, it’s EMDR for Post trauma, nothing else. View Post 30 30 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 5:14 am | In reply to wndozh8er. Please, wndozh-thing (I can’t pronounce your name, lol) See this vid. Type the youtube url, and then type: watch?v=woDzckO-xgo View Post 30 30 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 5:09 am | In reply to wndozh8er. It’s not important how it works, it’s important to try it. Because there is a chance it can works. It has nothing to do with your brain functionning well or even not well. Don’t ask how it works, just try. I’m very sensitive also, I’m afraid to have friends now because of that. I’m a sponge with other people distress, when you tell me your story and suffering, I absorb it like a sponge. Don’t focus on your mental illness, don’t call yourself a mentally ill person, all I see is a traumatic person. Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:59 am | In reply to wndozh8er. It’s a punishement to live miserably and to be forced to exit the life, because if you ask me or any people, we all prefer to live and be happy. To die is not a choice or an option, it’s the only way to stop suffering, it’s not a choice. If I have to choose, I choose an happy life, with a lot of great things achieved, thanks, the bill please. Justified View Post 34 34 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 4:55 am | In reply to wndozh8er. So try EMDR before going. I don’t say it can save you, but if chicks who have been raped in front of their family can heal their mental wounds with this method, there is a chance you can. I don’t know if it’s a small or a big chance, but if you tell me you have a solution for me, I will try everything. The problem is your trauma, you don’t have many mental illness, you have one big wound. What kind of trauma is it? So, please explain why men are visual in sex, and women are not (sight is not the first sense for a women to be sexually aroused, but it is for men), and explain why the walls are full of perfect ladies everywhere, and they are not full of perfect men. Explain why the more I show my body, the more invitation I have, and a men doesn’t have to show his body for that, he has to show his confidence, that’s the thing that impress women. Explain me why men always look at ladies in the street, and we don’t do that. Highly illogical. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:42 am And if I’m the person on the bridge to give you a smile, will you do that? Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:39 am | In reply to wndozh8er. Don’t believe studies. Real experience is better. You suffered from rejection, so you are a special case. I never met a man in my whole life who weren’t interested by appearance as a number one, except men who had suffered from rejection. A clever girl has no chance to seduce a man with her wit and intelligence, that’s fact. If she’s beautiful, intelligence matters, but if she’s not, it’s nothing. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:35 am | In reply to Tristeza. Yes, exactly Tristeza. Men (large majority, almost all of them) want the more sexy or beautiful girls, and a lot of women are interested in money or power. But men who looks for beautiful girls are more than women who are interested in money/power, because the other part of women are interested in stability, a father for my children… (especially when they had several relationships, and the men were very unstable/childish/afraid of a real relationship), there is another part of woman who are interested in hunting (not reachable men), or are interested in destructive men (the nurse syndrom), but it’s not the majority. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:30 am No way I believe you, it’s opposed to the logics. Look around you. Maybe you are not that kind of guy, but it’s maybe 1% I don’t know. I’m not a virgin, and I met some men, I had some male friends, some female friends, and I saw the female happy with their husband/boyfriends, even when they were ugly, because they were reasuring, they felt in security with them (very important for a woman), and I always saw men looking for girls more beautiful than their women/girl friends, even the one pretending to be really in love, when another woman comes, hormons talk… So, never you would make me believe that the number one for guy is not appearance, it’s 75% 80% of the thing. For women, I would say it’s 60%. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:23 am I really think men are more picky with women than women with men. Of course, a lot of women are picky, like spoiled brat, but look their husband later, they are not all sex symbols. But men are hunters and always want the sexiest girl they can find. No way to make a man happy if you’re not super sexy, or if you are normal, and your husband meet more beautiful women than you, he always be very sad. Be realistic. Open your eyes, what do you see when you look around? You see perfect girls in ads everywhere, but do you see your city’s walls with hot men everywhere: no, everywhere it’s hot chicks. So it’s easy to see men are more concerned with high standards of appearance. Men are more visual than women. To have an erection, they need to look, women are aroused by the tone of the voice, by confidence, by words, etc. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:17 am | In reply to YuTasogare. It’s the opposite for me, my empathy is way too high. Save me from myself View Post 13 13 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:16 am | In reply to wndozh8er. Autistic is only a label on the face of a person. If you have communication problems with other people, it’s autistic feature. But anyway, we don’t care about labels. Psychiatry is not a stable science, DSM changes all the time, new labels are added, and other disease labels are removed. Personnally, I know for sure i have autistic features, wether I’m an autist or not, it doesn’t matter. You feel weird because you have trauma, it’s simple to understand. How to feel “normal” with trauma: almost impossible. Save me from myself View Post 13 13 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:12 am | In reply to Tristeza. It’s good to be a virgin when it’s your decision. There is no hurry. You can lost your virginity at any age, or never if it’s your choice. People, STOP to be normative! To be virgin is not a disease; Virgin people are maybe like monsters in our modern society, but it was not true in the past. Two of my grand-uncles remains virgin, because they never been married, and everyone loved them, none never said bad things in my family about that, and I don’t think outside the family neither, because it was not a disease at this time. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:07 am | In reply to wndozh8er. No, no, no. If your face is average (no big physical defectq), women will look the way you are dressed (very important, like for girls), and your body, and for the body, you need body-building. (not too much) and everyone is able to do that. Believe me, with other girls, sometimes we see man with a average face, or a slightly below average face, and the body makes us dream (even if I personnally don’t like too much muscles), it’s the same for guys with boobs, but it’s more difficult for a woman to get them (especially with no money), you can train in body-building even with no money, that’s the difference. We like good shoulders (it makes us feel in security), and a good chest, no need to have muscles everywhere. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:02 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. I don’t know Channing Tatum, I got a photo on Google. What is the special thing? Good looking, but not my kind of guy. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:59 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. John Stamos was (I don’t know now) the kind of man you can be have crush on him, but look around you, husbands are not all Stamos clones, so girls may want something else… Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:57 am | In reply to wndozh8er. If you don’t have physical problem, you can become average very easily. The goal is not being the sexiest man on earth, it’s to be average, and to know how to chat with girls. Sometimes, men are physically ok, but they are rejected because they don’t know how girls work. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:55 am | In reply to Tristeza. Hey, Tristeza, are you ready to help people here, or to try? There are men here that things they will remain virgin all their life because their appearance are bad. Do you agree with me women are not so picky, and that sometimes changing some details (sometimes there are several ones) that make the women rejects them can fix the problem. I saw many men that were ugly married and father, do you agree with me? Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:51 am | In reply to wndozh8er. What is your physical problem in your opinion? Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:48 am | In reply to wndozh8er. No, not like John Stamos, but he is not interesting anyway. He seduces hot chicks for the apperance, and move from relationship to relationship. The thing you want is someone who undertand you, who cares for you, and a stable realtionship, not a hollywood mariage-divorce-drama-depression-mariage again-thing, or is it? Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:45 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. For the abuse thing, it’s the same thing with guys. It’s a kind of mental “illness”. That kind of girls like unreachable and abusive guys, and that kind of guys like heartless whores. So let this kind of personnality, they are not interesting, and very unhappy, they always repeat over and over the same ritual, often all their life. We have to pity them. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:42 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. So in this case, you may remain a virgin, but you may become a loved virgin. Some girls, sometimes because of trauma, don’t want to have sex. They could understand you, and accept you. Be aware that your sensitiveness is due for a large part to your hormone unbalance. I’m a person with hormonal problem (thyroid), so I really know how hormons can affect your depression and ability to be happy. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:39 am | In reply to wndozh8er. I don’t say looks doesn’t matter, I say there is way to fix that when you are a man. Because there are “tricks” with women, and only a woman can explain you the thing you can’t guess, because you are a man. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 7:37 am | In reply to FrenchyGirl. Same for me. I always wanted a husband and a normal family. I don’t undestand how you talk about “dream guy” at your age. It’s for little girl, not women. Are you a virgin? Don’t say I’ve making fun of someone if you don’t know. I’m not here to make fun of people in any way. Especially when you see mine, my English is very far from being perfect, it’s not the language I use everyday. I’m lost. Somebody you are a man. Right? The person who is supposed to be hog, I don’t know who is it. Used “her” to talk about herself. So it’s a girl. A person said “him” talking about Hog. So I’ve said “no, it’s a girl, except if her grammar is not good” (because a man using “her” instead of “his” has a faulty grammar, right? Somebody told me “so I’m a girl with a bad grammar according to you”. So, i replied, yes, if you wrote “her” it means you’ve made a mistake (and this mistake made me think a girl was speaking) So, who is who? Hog a girl, and Somebody, a man? Two different persons? So why Somebody replied to my comment? If I support your choice, it’s ok View Post 39 39 comments R Somebody Insignificant Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:53 am FrenchYGirl posted this @Somebody. Yes, if it’s you and you supposed to be a man, definitively bad grammar. “For me, if I could meet my 12 year old self, I would tell HER”. Except if English language kept for me one of its mystery. I had no idea what was going on. If I support your choice, it’s ok View Post 39 39 comments No hogpotter Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:38 am @Frenchygirl: Did I… say that? Did my future self say that? Thanks for reminding me. Love… Love keeps us alive. Everyone, thank you. I’ll survive. Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:38 am | In reply to wndozh8er. @Somebody. Yes, if it’s you and you supposed to be a man, definitively bad grammar. “For me, if I could meet my 12 year old self, I would tell HER”. Except if English language kept for me one of its mystery. Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:35 am It’s an automatic moderation. If I support your choice, it’s ok View Post 39 39 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:34 am | In reply to disgusting. I’m not that young, but I like to pretend to be young :p So, why you have a “dream boy”, it’s a long time since I lost my illusions, and don’t have “dream” boy anymore. Men are not perfect (neither we are) so how one of them could be your dream? I’ve never been loved neither, and I don’t believe in male/female love anyway any more. So, it doesn’t exist, it’s normal I never knew it. I lost my will View Post 10 10 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:30 am | In reply to Tristeza. Take me on another post. Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:30 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. @Morris. What is the link with the discussion? I’ve never said they weren’t useful, or human beings, I said it counts for nothing in relationship experience with a woman. Seeing a prostitute and having a girl friend, I don’t see the links. Some sexual skills maybe, but that’s all. I heard some men goes to prostitute to chat because they feel alone, but it’s not all prostitutes that are psychologist, I guess many of them have a whoremonger to pay, so they have no time for that. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:22 am | In reply to wndozh8er. It’s not a guy it’s a girl I think, or he has very bad grammar. Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:21 am | In reply to Tristeza. Talk me on another post, wherever you want. Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:17 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. Prostitutes are not relationship, so no it doesn’t really count. You don’t really learn from women with them. . And yes, a micropenis is a problem. There is surgery (I don’t know if it’s possible for you, you are the only one to know), and the second option is girls who will be ok with micropenis, because they have small needs. So you have 2 options, and you have to accept either one or the other. With an operation, you can be happy, and with a loving woman with small sexual needs, you could be also happy. But staying like you are right now, you can’t. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:11 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. They get the attention of both sex, because of men’s visual obsession. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:10 am | In reply to wndozh8er. The prey attract the prey hunters. Think about that. It’s always the same people who attract that kind of girls, and it’s because of low self-esteem, and the more unfair in all this story, is that the more you attract noxious girls, the less self-esteem you have, and so, next time, it’s always worse. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:07 am Hog, you wrote very beautiful words, do you remember? If I could meet my 12 year old self, I would tell her, “Be happy. There’s no need to be so sad… It won’t solve anything nor is it of any use. Smile, because everything will be just fine. When you’re as big as me you’ll look back and realize the beauty is much more meaningful compared to the pain.”… Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:06 am I read your posts Hog, what is the reason why you feel like that? Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:04 am | In reply to Tristeza. Why not. If you’re loved it’s good, but if you are loved and you love the person, it’s magical fuel. Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:02 am | In reply to Tristeza. In psychology, when you have poor self-esteem, you attract prey hunters, that’s like a math equation. So, no wonder they attracted this kind of girls. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 9:00 am @Somebody You’re wrong, the people who buy the most are women. And they are so brainwashed now, that they also buy when they see beautiful woman, because our society showed us it’s the main interesting feature of women, so they have to identify themselves to beautiful ladies. It’s the only way to have men (or husband)’s attention. And I talk form experience, my experience, my female friend experience too. So many cases where the couple is down, because the man became unhappy with the woman’s appearance, you change the woman appearance, and the husband is loving again! That’s always magical, never saw a case where it fails, except when the woman is abusive with the husband. Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:56 am I think he needs to be loved, he needs friends. And we needs friends also… Come, death. I’m ready. View Post 29 29 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 8:50 am | In reply to Tristeza. So you see Tristeza, we are a lot of women to consider security, affection,etc are better than appearance, and appearance that shows you will be protected by a man (large shoulders) matters for us because it’s psychological. But men don’t undestand women, they are all visual, and they think we are like them. Men who are clever enough to realize a male brain and a female brain have totally different way of working, are very scarce. They work a way, they think we work the same way! And almost all men I know are like this They don’t want to try to understand women. The first step is to accept we don’t have the same way to work !! Dear Prudence, I’m a single guy in my late 20s with a steady job and lots of good boyfriend qualities. I’m at the point in my life where I’d like to settle down and maybe start a family. The problem is that I have had a horrible time with women, and it pretty much always comes back to the same problem: I have a very small penis. I have a condition called micropenis, and it has been the cause of the end of a few relationships. One of my ex-girlfriends couldn’t stop giggling and said, “Aww, it’s so cute!” the first time she saw it. I’ve had several relationships fizzle out immediately after we start getting intimate. I’m starting to get desperate. I can’t wait around forever to find a mate who’s willing to accept me, and I don’t want to trap a woman in an unhappy and unfulfilling marriage where she ends up sneaking around on me. My sex life hasn’t been all that pleasurable because there’s so much embarrassment and my partner never enjoys it. I’ve thought about posting personal ads that mention it upfront and asking for a one-sided open relationship. I would be monogamous but my partner would have my blessing to have an occasional lover on the side. I have a feeling I’ll probably have to settle for something like this regardless—either behind my back or with my knowledge. Do you think this is a realistic idea, or would I be just setting myself up to get hurt and manipulated? Should I continue to play the field and hope to find a woman who’ll accept my shortcomings (pun intended)? —Lonely Dear Lonely, You deserve a partner who is fully committed to you. I bet you do have many good boyfriend qualities, and among them are a sense of humor and forthrightness. Don’t settle for a situation in which if your wife says she’s working late you’ll be torn up as to whether she’s seeing the boyfriend you tacitly approved. Physically, you’re not a typical guy. So I think you should expand your horizons by looking for a gem of a woman who herself may not be typical. Read this article about dating websites for people with disabilities, including Dating4Disabled. There are plenty of women for whom intercourse may not be the primary way of expressing their sexuality but who want a physical connection and would be great and faithful romantic partners. You need to find someone who is eager to explore all the creative ways there are to sexually satisfy each other. If you meet a woman on a website at which people are upfront about their physical capacities, you would be starting off with someone who is aware of and comfortable with your situation from the start. Think of what a relief it would be to get to know a woman without worrying about the “there’s something I need to tell you” conversation. A targeted search for a compatible partner should spare you unnecessary anxiety and humiliation. I hope the happy ending to your quest is that two people who weren’t sure they’d ever find anyone have found each other. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:04 pm www . nytimes . com /2010/12/28/health/28dating . html?_r=1 Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:04 pm http://www.nytimes.com /2010/12/28/health/28dating . html?_r=1 Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:03 pm On this site, girls won’t make fun of you, because they have disabilities (it can be slight ones, don’t worry) www .dating4disabled .com /search I’m looking for a site with sexual problem, I’m sure I can find. Are you fluent only in English or do you speak other languages? Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:55 pm If you were* Sorry for my English, worse and worse, I didn’t sleep last night. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:53 pm I understand how you feel, not feeling inferior, but I try to explain to you that some women are a-sexual for instance, and your sexual problem makes no difference for them. Be aware that you are not half-a-man because one of your function doesn’t work fine. Human beings, and males are not defined by how their sex looks, or by their sex activity. It’s modern society who try to make you think that. If you was born centuries before, or even decades before, you won’t be bullied for having no sexual activities, you would be considered as perfectly normal without that. Be aware of that. Stop thinking you are less than other people only because a function is missing. It’s not the most important function in the human being, whatever stupid people of nowadays may think. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:45 pm | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. I had been very poor all my life. I had time in my life not eating a week, because I had no money. I have to ask clothes in churches sometimes, or buy it in charity shops. I’ve never been able to buy only one time clothes I like. I always buy old clothes. I never had a car or a driving licence. Do you know how I feel ??? Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:42 pm | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. If you have been a millionnaire and did no good to other people with your money, you are an idiot. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:39 pm | In reply to ironman22. I know but she didn’t had all the tools. Don’t talk about the after life, nobody knows what happen, if there is an after life, if there is a hell and an heaven or nothing. People who says I know are liars, everyone is ignorant and only believe. How can you talk about “peaceful kingdoms” and that sort of things? It’s a scam. Thank you in reference to Butterflybae View Post 10 10 comments No ironman22 Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 12:28 pm | In reply to wndozh8er. FrenchyGirl, not everything can be “cured”. And while she may not be able to walk, or talk, or walk within our mortal realm, she is at peace and for all any of us know, there is a far more beautiful place that awaits us after. Or just peace beyond our comprehension. Either she is fluttering about on her beautiful new wings or she is in a state of eternal black piece whether she exist or not. And if there is no “existence” after here, then she won’t know, will she? While I can’t understand her full history, I know it was horrible and unfathomable, and only she could know what she needed in order to find a safe haven away from her demons. Like wndozh8er said, may she rest in peace. Thank you in reference to Butterflybae View Post 10 10 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 11:48 am | In reply to wndozh8er. I think if they were, he would have removed them (sorry for my grammar lol) If I support your choice, it’s ok View Post 39 39 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 11:47 am | In reply to ironman22. Natural selection is a big scam to justify the excess of ultra-capitalism. (I’m not a communist by the way, but excess is bad) Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 11:45 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. Can you imagine there is a triplo-X lady or Klinefelter or whatever it’s not important, in perfect mental health, and with a female body, who is as depressed as you are because she’s maybe 30 or 40, and maybe is a virgin, because she felt too different to accept or to seek a relationship? 50 y.o won’t be too late for her, she would be happy to find you. Meet those ladies, maybe some beautiful souls among them. I don’t see how it could make your mental health worse, honestly, it would be the first time this kind of thing happens, having your desire fullfilled, and it makes things worse!?? People are not well because they think they don’t desserve things, and they fudge their chance to be happy, because they’ve never been, so they are convinced it’s not possible, because it never happens to them. And I guess how you could be moved only by the fact to imagine it could happen to you. I’m a very rational person, and I wouldn’t encourage you if it was hopeless. It’s not hopeless, don’t say you don’t want a relationship, it’s not true, you expect one, one part of you tries to make sabotage, but the other part really expects it. Let it happen. It’s the way it has to be. If I support your choice, it’s ok View Post 39 39 comments R hiohneh Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 11:30 am | In reply to hiohneh. @ FrenchyGirl – I apologize, it must have been a misunderstanding. The way it was written sounded like you were saying Somebody Insignificant did not use good grammar in general. I was confused as it sounded like an insult directed at him. That’s why I wanted you to explain, sorry. I’m a native English speaker and I mess up all the time. Again, I apologize. :) If I support your choice, it’s ok View Post 39 39 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 11:25 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. So, we remove the hermaphrodites. (except if you can accept a woman with some male features, in some case, male features are small) So, you’re not half-half, you’re more man than female. If a woman was a man before does it make a difference (just asking) What is the name of your syndrom? Have you seen women with triplo-X? I’m sure they will accept you as you are, if you accept them. They are mentally normal. en.wikipedia. org /wiki /Triple_X_syndrome There is also Klinefelter syndrom and other syndroms like that. If I support your choice, it’s ok View Post 39 39 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 11:06 am | In reply to wndozh8er. Yes, that’s right, some people are sexually indetermined, hermophrodits, and are you open to transgender? I’m on a google forum of depressed people, and a lot of people there are depressed and struggle with their gender identity. I don’t recommend you someone who is depressed, but it’s to show you you’re far from being the only one. I think being between two gender is a great factor of depression and suicidal tendancies. If I support your choice, it’s ok View Post 39 39 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 11:03 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. According to what you say, the woman with the “dirty we” is not the kind of woman that is for you. It was very clumbsy of you to introduce the things like that. Stop hurting yourself with that, you had been hurted in this story because you didn’t know how to do, and you needed someone to give you advices, but as you had nobody, you made a mistake. Forget about that. I know it’s hard because it hurts, but you won’t do this mistake again, so it’s a lesson the hard way. Forget the “fucking gross” a lot of people are too normative, but not every people are like that. With good advices and help, you can manage to find the right person. If you can’t have surgery, you have to meet a woman who have small needs, and this kind of women exist, and they are full of love. You can’t go with any woman, you need a person who can fit with you, a person who can accept you, good news ! this kind of woman exist. I guess you don’t have a great libido because of your homons problem? Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 10:39 am | In reply to wndozh8er. Make a song called “suicide project” Gonna write a hardcore punk song off the fly. The challenge is to write it as fast as I can View Post 9 9 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 10:37 am | In reply to wndozh8er. @windowseitghter 3 years it’s a lot. Why don’t you try to go back with this person if you still loves her, and she still loves you? Sadness on the way to… View Post 77 77 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 10:35 am | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. Your perversion is very dangerous and you should work on it, because I’m convinced you can have a serious relationship, but with some help. What do you think about my message about the two choices? FrenchyGirl, I know you mean well but life isn’t as simple as you make it out to be. You can’t just “get over things” if that was the case none of us would be here. The mind is far more complex and in depth than just a simple case of black and white, and getting out and just getting over shit. That is no how it works. Most of us if not all of us have spent a great deal of time paying out shitloads of $$$$ to verbal hookers (I do love that…lol perfect in every way) to try and help us move on, cope, deal, get “better”. It doesn’t happen that way for everyone. Some people have been through so much that no matter how much support, no matter how much love, etc there is, they can’t escape the demons that plagued them. As we have just so recently seen. I don’t know about you but I don’t want to bury my head and the sand and go LALALALALA and pretend that everything is okay. Because everything is NOT okay and the world isn’t cotton candy, unicorn stickers, and rainbows, it would be nice but that is not reality. Unless you are Lisa Frank. Comfort? View Post 65 65 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:52 pm | In reply to FrenchyGirl. Lol. Yes, some kind of perversion like a game, but if it’s not a game, and is mandatory, it has to be cured. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:51 pm | In reply to FrenchyGirl. You weren’t not able to do that he asked, but you could work as a couple on that, and it will be really easier, because love is a big motivation. Anyway, it’s too soon. One step, and only then the second step, it’s the way you learned to walk. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:50 pm | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. It’s not a problem, you can adopt and make miserable children happy. It’s not the topic right now. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:47 pm | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. They didn’t know you were talking about MICROpenis, so it’s not the same thing. You are out of the normative scale, but not a problem. Plus, you can give a lot of pleasure women with all your body, when you will accept yourself, with a woman who have no problem accepting that. Sensuality is so important. And love. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:41 pm | In reply to Mf. I don’t think it’s a plus. He has to cure that. But he can. Frustration made that, removal of frustration + therapy can cure that. It would be really surprising if this perversion don’t get better with that. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:39 pm | In reply to Mf. Moderation is a big shit. Yes, people with big penis can’t have sexual intercourse with normal woman. Personnally, if i was in love with someone with a really big penis, I wouldn’t want to have sex with him. No chance. Even if I like him. We are in a normative society. The time before porn movies and the internet, people were virgin until the marriage, so they had no idea if their wife’s vulva was cute, or anything. Normative society is hard for women too. And the standards are high. Many women have vulva surgery now, it’s amazing!! Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:35 pm | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. No problem. Have fun with dating sites, grow back your self-esteem, and tell me how you do. If you need advice with female set of mind, no problem (we are very special), and then you’ll have babies, give one of them my name :ppp A bit soon, but I tell you the truth, barrier are in your head, you are lucky to live a time where you can find the women who need so much love, because you are full of love, and it will be love festival, oh yeah. Ahah. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:32 pm | In reply to FrenchyGirl. Perversion (yours not any) can be cured, because you are not born with that. 100% sure of that. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:30 pm | In reply to FrenchyGirl. No age is not important. There is women 30, 40 or 50 that will be interested by YOU. It’s normal people give you this advice, this advice is wise. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:27 pm | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. Great find ! Now I undertand how this f*** site works ! Ahah, I wil be your master Suicide Project !! You humiliate me by not letting me post, now you’re mine. Ahah evil poster here. No, seriously, like we say very politely in French (excuse my French) it makes me shit. (meaning it’s boring) Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:24 pm Ahah, oh this woman is wise, it’s amazing :p Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:23 pm oh fuck, you’re right, it’s because of the word p***tner. Dear Lonely, You deserve a p**tner who is fully committed to you. I bet you do have many good boyfriend qualities, and among them are a sense of humor and forthrightness. Don’t settle for a situation in which if your wife says she’s working late you’ll be torn up as to whether she’s seeing the boyfriend you tacitly approved. Physically, you’re not a typical guy. So I think you should expand your horizons by looking for a gem of a woman who herself may not be typical. Read this article about dating websites for people with disabilities, including Dating4Disabled. There are plenty of women for whom intercourse may not be the primary way of expressing their sexuality but who want a physical connection and would be great and faithful romantic p–tners. You need to find someone who is eager to explore all the creative ways there are to sexually satisfy each other. If you meet a woman on a website at which people are upfront about their physical capacities, you would be starting off with someone who is aware of and comfortable with your situation from the start. Think of what a relief it would be to get to know a woman without worrying about the “there’s something I need to tell you” conversation. A targeted search for a compatible p***rtner should spare you unnecessary anxiety and humiliation. I hope the happy ending to your quest is that two people who weren’t sure they’d ever find anyone have found each other. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:21 pm Fuck fuck fuck suicide project, I hate you. I’m not a spammer and you control all my post. Fuck of you. Dear Lonely (name of the guy), Dear Lonely, You deserve a partner who is fully committed to you. I bet you do have many good boyfriend qualities, and among them are a sense of humor and forthrightness. Don’t settle for a situation in which if your wife says she’s working late you’ll be torn up as to whether she’s seeing the boyfriend you tacitly approved. Physically, you’re not a typical guy. So I think you should expand your horizons by looking for a gem of a woman who herself may not be typical. Read this article about dating websites for people with disabilities, including Dating4Disabled. There are plenty of women for whom intercourse may not be the primary way of expressing their sexuality but who want a physical connection and would be great and faithful romantic partners. You need to find someone who is eager to explore all the creative ways there are to sexually satisfy each other. If you meet a woman on a website at which people are upfront about their physical capacities, you would be starting off with someone who is aware of and comfortable with your situation from the start. Think of what a relief it would be to get to know a woman without worrying about the “there’s something I need to tell you” conversation. A targeted search for a compatible partner should spare you unnecessary anxiety and humiliation. I hope the happy ending to your quest is that two people who weren’t sure they’d ever find anyone have found each other. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:19 pm | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. Dear Lonely, You deserve a p*rtner who is fully committed to you. I bet you do have many good boyfriend qualities, and among them are a sense of humor and forthrightness. Don’t settle for a situation in which if your wife says she’s working late you’ll be torn up as to whether she’s seeing the boyfriend you tacitly approved. Physically, you’re not a typical guy. So I think you should expand your horizons by looking for a gem of a woman who herself may not be typical. Read this article about dating websites for people with disabilities, including Dating4Disabled. There are plenty of women for whom intercourse may not be the primary way of expressing their sexuality but who want a physical connection and would be great and faithful romantic p*rtners. You need to find someone who is eager to explore all the creative ways there are to sexually satisfy each other. If you meet a woman on a website at which people are upfront about their physical capacities, you would be starting off with someone who is aware of and comfortable with your situation from the start. Think of what a relief it would be to get to know a woman without worrying about the “there’s something I need to tell you” conversation. A targeted search for a compatible partner should spare you unnecessary anxiety and humiliation. I hope the happy ending to your quest is that two people who weren’t sure they’d ever find anyone have found each other. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:19 pm | In reply to Somebody Insignificant. Wait, I have the reply, but this fucking site doesn’t let me post without “awaiting moderation”, don’t know why. Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:18 pm Fuck fuck fuck. I pasted a long message, and is awaiting moderation??? So I have to copy everything by hand ??? What the ugly fuck??? Dear P. I’m a single guy in my late 20s with a steady job and lots of good boyfriend qualities. I’m a the point in my liffe whre I’d like so settle down and maybe start a family. The problem is that I have had a horrible time with women, and it pretty much always comes back to the same problem: I have a very small penis. I have a condition called micropenis, and it has been the cause of the end of a few relationships. One of my ex-girlfriends couldn’t sotp giggling adn said: “Aww, its soo cute!” the first time she saw it. I’ve had several relationships fizzle out immediately after we start getting intimate. I’m starting to get desperate. I can’t wait around forever to find a mate who’s willing to accept me, and I don’t want to trap a woman in an unhappy and unfulfilling marriabe where she ends up sneaking around on me. My sex life hasn’t been all that pleasurable because there’s so much embarrassment and my p*rtner never enjoys it. I’ve thought about posting personal ads that mention it upfront and asking for a one-sided oepn relationship. I would be monogamous but my partner would have my blessing to have an occasional lover on the side. I have a feeling I’ll probably have to settle for something like this regardless -either behind my back or with my knowledge. Do you think this is a realsitic idea, or would I be just setting myself up to get hurt and manipulatd? Should i continue to play the field and hope to find a woman who’ll accept my shotcomings – pun intended ? Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R Unluckymale13 suicideproject.org/author/unluckymale13/x Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:15 pm @frenchygirl you said “If you have been a millionnaire and did no good to other people with your money, you are an idiot.” lol there are many millionaires who dont give a fuck about others.. are they idiots.. no.. because they have the brains required to make $$$$.. Why I am an Insensitive Prick View Post 86 86 comments No FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:11 pm Fuck, fuck, fuck I’ve posted a long message, and it is awaiting moderation??? Fuck !!! Dear Prudence, I’m a single guy in my late 20s with a steady job and lots of good boyfriend qualities. I’m at the point in my life where I’d like to settle down and maybe start a family. The problem is that I have had a horrible time with women, and it pretty much always comes back to the same problem: I have a very small penis. I have a condition called micropenis, and it has been the cause of the end of a few relationships. One of my ex-girlfriends couldn’t stop giggling and said, “Aww, it’s so cute!” the first time she saw it. I’ve had several relationships fizzle out immediately after we start getting intimate. I’m starting to get desperate. I can’t wait around forever to find a mate who’s willing to accept me, and I don’t want to trap a woman in an unhappy and unfulfilling marriage where she ends up sneaking around on me. My sex life hasn’t been all that pleasurable because there’s so much embarrassment and my partner never enjoys it. I’ve thought about posting personal ads that mention it upfront and asking for a one-sided open relationship. I would be monogamous but my partner would have my blessing to have an occasional lover on the side. I have a feeling I’ll probably have to settle for something like this regardless—either behind my back or with my knowledge. Do you think this is a realistic idea, or would I be just setting myself up to get hurt and manipulated? Should I continue to play the field and hope to find a woman who’ll accept my shortcomings (pun intended)? Moderation arrggghh View Post 66 66 comments R FrenchyGirl Submitted on 2015/08/25 at 1:08 pm | In reply to FrenchyGirl. Ahah, she is as wise as me, she said the same thing than me :p You are trapped now. You have to follow wise advices. XD