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TO ALL THOSE WHO ARE THINKING OF SUICIDE I DO NOT KNOW YOU BUT THERE ARE PEPOLE WHO DO AND YOU MATTER TO THEM YOU MATTER TO GOD YOU HAVE A PURPOSE FOR BEING HERE WE’VE ALL MADE MISTAKES IT JUST MEANS WERE HUMAN IT MAY HURT TO BE HUMAN BUT KILLING YOURSELF WONT DO ANYTHING TO HELP ANYONE ESPECILY NOTÂ YOURSELF INSIDE EVRYONE IS A PERSON WHO IS SCARED AND CONFUSEDÂ YOU HAVE TO HELP YOURSELF ONLY YOU KNOW WHATS GOING ON INSIDE. THERE AREÂ PEPOLE WHO CARE.
sincerely Nikki
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You do more harm than good with ignorant and quite frankly, insulting posts like this.
Well Nikki. There are times when people turn up here because they have lost themselves and can’t find their way. Blanket statements on the lines of “YOU MATTER TO THOSE WHO KNOW YOU”, “YOU MATTER TO GOD”, “YOU HAVE A PURPOSE FOR BEING HERE” from someone who in first place doesn’t know these people nor their problems are ridiculous. Not to mention the fact that these words of yours written in caps as if to shout….. Why are you shouting? Why were you here in the first place? Did writing your post make you feel better inside – like you have done something good?
Through your post, you couldn’t have sounded more insensitive! Not to mention mocking of those people who probably genuinely need help to figure out a solution to a life wherein everyday seems to bring new problems with no sign of a solution to any!
As for the purpose of life – isn’t that the elusive thing next to true happiness that we spend our whole lives searching for?
Good grief!! Nikki, your post is truly awful in every possible way, you silly silly girl. You are either extremely stupid or viciously cruel if this post is intended as a joke.
I see that people are upset about this post, but I think there may be good intention behind it. Just as Nikki does not know the intricacies of our lives and troubles, neither do we know hers. As mislead as the message may be, I think that Nikki is sincerely trying to send some kind of encouragement.
Let’s not pass too much judgment on her.
Nikki in all honesty, I feel like what you are trying to do is a great thing and I agree with everything that you have said. You are only trying to ensure that everyone knows that someone out there cares and love them. Even so, some people have taken offense to what you have said. It just annoys them. However, continue to spread cheer and hope to those that need it. Be careful not to offend anyone (which is not easy). Continue to be true to yourself and thanks for the inspiring message. I hope and pray that at least someone reads this message and find it helpful. Godbless Nikki.
Nikki,
You have broken one of the cardinal rules of this site. You need to keep your religion and your “God†to yourself. I’m very happy for you if you are a spiritual person and that it brings you comfort and joy, to each his/her own. However, not everyone believes the same things you do or shares in that spirituality. All you accomplish by bringing “God†and religion onto this site is to anger people and have them miss the whole point of your post. For example let’s examine the responses to this post you have made. Overwhelmingly negative, yes? People get so thrown off by the “God†thing that they are blinded to the rest of your post and message which in my opinion is a reasonably good and positive one. So to Nikki and other people of faith, just keep that stuff to yourself because it’s only going to anger people and have them completely ignore your message.
I know that it might be difficult for you to understand why people become so angry about “God†and religion. Let me explain why I personally become physically ill by people spewing their religious garbage on here trying to help people. For someone like myself, who doesn’t believe in “Godâ€, your faith equals ignorance. Your belief in an all knowing and seeing supernatural being is pitiful. It’s no different than voodoo priests sacrificing goats or a Wiccan praying to a tree. The fact that ANYONE can believe in something that cannot be scientifically quantified in this day and age is just laughable. There is no proof of a God and there never has been. If anything there is only proof to the contrary such as all the suffering and pain endured by the members of this site, little kids dying slow painful deaths of cancer, and all the other daily atrocities that happen on this planet. Yet people of faith will respond to this with more childlike ignorance, “It’s God’s plan,†or, “You have to have faith.†Whenever I debate these facts with a religious person that’s what it always comes down to, faith. Faith, this blind acceptance and belief of something that you cannot touch, smell, see, hear, or taste, this belief in something that despite your advanced brain and all the modern knowledge it contains you still like a child who believes in Santa accept as truth. Would you not laugh at me if I started praying to Santa and saying I had faith in his existence? How is that any different from your belief in “Godâ€?
Now I’m sure that I have made the religious people who visit this site angry. That was not my intention. I merely wished to demonstrate the emotion that many of us feel when religion and “God†are brought into posts here. The things I said were pretty infuriating weren’t they? Now you can begin to understand why so many people have reacted negatively to Nikki’s post.
So again, Nikki and other spiritual people here, I am glad that you have found something to believe in that makes you happy and sustains you. That is bully for you. However, preaching your beliefs to others is not acceptable. Understand that it only angers people and they will completely miss the good and positive non-religious things you have to say. I don’t make posts about my religious beliefs so please be respectful and reciprocate.
Thanks to the above post that explains perfectly the response that Nikki got.
AngelofLight; Whilst I agree that for whatever reason you have, you chose to come on this site and attempt to help those who are suffering. However, for someone who is not suffering, you as well as Nikki, it seems absurd to me that either of you are qualified to ‘help’ anyone. I agree with the above post that for those who do believe in something, or have found happiness and peace in something is fabulous FOR YOU. To come on here and try to spread that happiness is futile and not helpful at all. It’s like a healthy person telling someone riddled with cancer to smile, or a dancer telling someone with no legs to get up and dance!
VanTaylor2010:
Someone who is not suffering?….:)…oh how we have so rapidly jumped to conclusions:) In no way am I disrespecting you or trying to be rude to you. I hope I haven’t offended anyone. However I am at liberty to say what I feel like. I am not here to force religion, God or any spiritual thing on the people here on this site. I know that most people in this day in age probably do not even believe in what I believe. Even so, I am solely here to help those in need not by spreading false hope or some sort of ridiculous cheer.
But Mr. Van Taylor, you are incorrect in saying that I haven’t been through some of the motions that these people have been through or that I have not experience the feeling and thoughts that they have. Just because I have found a way to overcome it to a certain extent, do not automatically judge me and think that life is a bed of roses for me.
But I have absolutely no reason to find fault in your comment. You are only speaking your opinion and I can always learn from someone, whether we agree or disagree. So thanks so much for your commentary on this post:) It really got me thinking…however my point of view stands:). May peace be with you my dear:)