ever since elementry school I’ve been called cruel names like “man” meaning I’m ugly or “panda” suggesting I’m fat. Every girl In my school is gorgeous. They all get the guys never me. I feel unwanted. I fall asleep crying and wake up to it too.. Some days I just can’t take it so I come home and cry to my mom cause shes the only one I have the the girls in “friends” with are all terribly they are full of drama and lies. I need someone to talk to..
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Well, you can talk to the people here if it’ll help you. I can’t relate to being called those things or the thing about being a girl.. but I’ve been called stuff too in elementary school. I know how irritating it can be when they call you stuff (though mine’s wasn’t too bad I think). I can relate the the fake friends with the lies and stuff, it’s always depressing when the people you trust just lie to you..
Thank you so much!!!
talk to me….im called things but watever
you know?
when people are like that, you just have to hold your head up high and smile at whatever people say…..just ignore everyone, if you can do that, you’re above everone
hey, and “gorgeous” isnt skin or hair or body…..its personality, you can have someone who’s “pretty to the eye” and they’re can have a terrible personality and be cruel…who cares what u look like?
and getting a guy…….in good time my friend…..just wait, be spontaneous, be yourself and he’ll come…..
dont bother with any fakes……im so shy, but you have to be insertive (or howev u spell it), find people who you think u’d fit in with or like and jus force urself upon them and see how that goes…..
and….you can always follow your dreams…like i wanna go live in an undersea palace and have a fish army and b ruler of the sea…ppl say that wont happen…theyll see xD
This really helped thank you!! 🙂
I’ll talk to ya…lots of people here will. Not sure how old you are but…it’s as simple as this-children know the truth…ie. when someone calls them a name, they say “I know you are but what am I”. ….as children we have the built in awareness that we project our idea of what is on to other people for whatever reason. So bottom line is, you need to understand anyone who says something negative you, are really commenting on themselves. NOT YOU. Otherwise why say anything to you at all.
You get the opportunity of cultivating strength and awareness as you’re faced with these challenges. You’re sensitive, and it’s a challenge to figure out how to use your sensitivity to your advantage and not feel hurt by what anyone might say to you. All this is happening in order for you to ultimately empower yourself with awareness and personal strength, for your own health and well being. You have the choice to look at your experience as a positive or a negative…when you swing it to your advantage and take the positive outlook you reap the benefits of personal growth in all levels of your being. And you’re worth it. Sensitive people are far stronger than they think….give it time, and you will see. Good luck! Cheers!
Thanksss!!! <3
Looks only seem to matter when you are young. And it’s true what they say – beauty is in the eye of the beholder. When you get out of school and expand your circle of friends and people you know, you will find someone who finds you attractive.
But yeah, true beauty is on the inside. The people who make fun of you obviously don’t understand that yet. I know from experience that it’s the school misfits, the ones that everyone makes fun out of, that actually end up having the most success in life. All my Uni friends (including me) were bullied in school, and they’re now some of the nicest, brightest people I know who are really gonna go places. The bullies usually end up in dead end jobs with no real future.