So last night on casualty, they tried to portray Self harm. It was actually so bad that it made my blood boil! The way they showed it was totally the wrong way, they showed it as if it was easy to accomplish and that it wasn’t such a big deal, the ending especially was of a woman who slashed her wrists and all you saw was people not bothered by what happened and when she was cutting she made it so easy, like not putting in any thought or effort to do it properly, if I tried to do it like this i’d barely make a scratch yet she was pouring with blood that was flowing on to the floor making a massive puddle! It’s not the fact that she bleed ridiculously alot without putting any pressure into the cut, it’s the fact that they have totally shown cutters to be desperate in everything they do, like every minute of their lives is revolved around that blade/knife, don’t get me wrong for some this may be the case but from one of the actors in this show she seriously acted as if it was ok to do this to yourself and everybody around her acted the same? I’m not sure if this makes any sense what so ever or if I just sound like a moany *****, but it really annoyed me! they even showed it off by cutting in public and allowing people to see the fresh cuts, like walking down the street doing it! In my eyes, a cutter doesnt cut for attention they do it for everything other than that!
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I didn’t see that one but the way you describe it does sound pretty bad. People will get the wrong ideas about cutting, you’d think these shows would do some better research. Or just better acting to start with.
Why you then. If not for the attention?
cause you hate yourself what’s with it?
i dont get it.
@Social-outcast I totally agree! It was bad, they need to do a lot more research and get better actors! They’re portraying cutters in the wrong way
@Blackqwert- What? Sorry I don’t quite understand what you’re saying? Are you asking if I cut for attention? if that’s the case then no I don’t, I don’t crave attention & I certainly don’t want it.
I do
So why then?
Why what?
Sorry I don’t quite understand the question in hand can you make it a bit clearer please?
i guess he wants to know why you cut if not for attention.
blackqwert is cryptic…
Razor im no cryptic
no I guess you’re just straightforward.
English isn’t my mother tongue, so maybe I don’t always understand the first time what you want to say.
Oh,
I don’t cut for attention.
It feels better to cause my self real pain then bare with what I have in my head
for that moment, all I think about is the cut not anything else.
Sometimes, I don’t even realise I’m doing it, I black out & cut… I don’t understand why I do black out..
But yeah, I cut because the real pain is better than the emotional pain
Personally i don’t cut for attention although i can see why some people think so. There are so many people who do it then show off the scars or even fresh cuts, its as if cutting has become some type of fashion statement to them if that makes sense. I found cutting relaxes me. The sting then the flow of blood and i can feel the tension leaving my body. I only cut wheen i really need to now, when i’m in a total panic and need to calm myself down.
Cutting has never done anything to me, I cut myself and I feel no different then before. yet I do it because I can look at my arm and see what I did to myself. it motivates me to do something for someone else even though it does nothing for me at all. I’m also incapable of crying as well so I don’t get any ways of relief. my good dreams are now tormenting me because I know the hopelessness behind them and that hurt’s more than anything else. yet relief is elusive…
…and yes I think blackqwert is cryptic, but so am I at times. it’s not a bad thing in my oppinion. it just means he can think very deeply, and that’s probly why he’s depressed. deep and unending thinking is tormenting I know firsthand, and I hope blackqwert doesn’t.
Please talk to someone about your cutting. I don’t want to be judgemental, but I don’t want you guys to get hurt either.
What I don’t understand is why the first question people ask if they find out I cut the way I do is “why”.
They don’t care how recently I’ve done it. If I’m injured at the moment. If I want their help. They just go right ahead and try to bore their way into my mind thinking they can just brush past it and leave me so they can talk about it later.
Ive never actually thought of it like that 77evergone77, i guess i think of it as a natrual thing to respond/answer or not too, i’ve never been asked if im okay, am i injured ect ect
I’ll remember that