I’m having all around relationship problems. I’m having relationship problems with Jesus and I’m have relationship problems with the one girl that I have loved so deeply. I know she loves me but I feel as though things aren’t going to work out. She has told me that she don’t feel as strongly for me recently as she once did. I just don’t think I will ever find someone as special as she. I’m tired of going through life with this type of hurt. This may seem like a minor problem but my heart feels so heavy right now. I’m crying on a daily basis.
I don’t want to kill myself. I just feel like i don’t have a future. I try to pray. I don’t know what to say to God. How do you talk to God after you have tried to commit suicide. I mean after you tried to take the like he gave you. I’m sorry God. Please forgive me. The pain just feels too strong. I loved a girl and i loved her strong. I poured in all my emotions. I love you more but I feel like I’m living without you…God! Why can’t I hear you talk to me more? Why can’t you walk beside me? It’s like I’m left here to deal with the heartache myself and i just can’t do it. it hurts way too much. I love you Jesus. I love you Jesus.
I’ve loved everything you have given me. I love you jesus.
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What about shifting your focus?
Stop focusing on whether she loves you.
Start focusing on how well you are loving her.
-How well are you listening to her?
-How much space are you giving her?
-What are you doing to make her happy?
-How are you making her feel special?
Also, look after yourself. To be a good boyfriend, you need to calm down, focus on enjoying life, having fun, staying true to yourself.
You can’t control your girlfriend. But you can do your best to keep her happy, by paying attention to her and by treating yourself well.
this is like the story of my life. except I’m a girl.
He’s already forgiven you. And I’m pretty sure that telling Him you love Him is more than enough. 🙂 He knows what you’re going through and will never leave you alone. Times are tough, He is waiting for you to stop looking down at all the pain and to look up and see Him.
I know how you feel, I have felt this way in a relationship. Ultimately you two need to sit down and talk it out, and be honest and open and try not to be accusatory, just tell her what’s on your mind and ask her how she feels. It is better to be on the same page than to keep guessing, and also to feel so down in a relationship is never a good thing. Relationships, although any long-term one will have some rough spots, are supposed to be positive experiences. Take care, be safe ♥♥