So my parents informed me that they where getting divorced, when they told me my dad came over to hug me then my kinda realized “oh shit that’s what good parents do” and tried to awkwardly hug me as well. Now you’ll notice right away that is incredibly biased. (I think that’s the correct term.) After 22 fucking years of marriage my mom decided she wanted to fuck us all over and divorce my dad. My dad asked me if I saw this coming and I said no but truth is I had thought about it, there marriage wasn’t really going anywhere but it wasn’t horrible either. And then all of a sudden BAM mom wants a divorce, she wants dad outta the house, won’t sleep in the same bed as him. My mom gave me a sheet about teens dealing with divorce, thanks mom I always wanted a print off from the Internet about teens and divorce. It said not to choose sides. Like that’s gonna fucking happen, 22 FUCKIN YEARS of marriage and you kick dad out. He won’t be able to pay his house off until he’s 67, who knows when he’ll be able to retire. But you act all nice to me like it’s not your own doing, you dont want me to get mad because you know I’ll kick your ass. “You want a journal to write things in?” No “So you just keep everything locked up inside? I’m looking for therapy for you” no, I vent out here. Really mom though? You’re almost 50 and you divorce? Have you met someone else?? Like seriously.. Anyway my dad wants a clean slate because my mom has decorated everything in the house, so he’s moving, I don’t know what to put in my new room, should I bring things from my old room? Should I as well start a clean slate?
Anyway I would love to here some none biased opinions on the situation, some different perspectives to get a better understanding. So incase you didn’t know because my opinion overshadowed it my mom wants to leave my dad.
Thanks for reading,
Friend Of A Friend.
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Parents are stupid. It’s so hard to believe they were young once…
Haha I agree well I personally was happy about my parents divorce until my dad took most custody
I can’t really tell you about my parents divorce except that my father is insane and I blame myself for it even though I hadn’t been born yet, which is basically why they got the divorce. He had a quarter of a million dollars and then went nuts when he found out my mom was pregnant. My uncle made a comment when he told me about this that if my dad had kept his shit together i might have grown up in a nice house in the city instead if having to live off of the government in the middle of the fucking country. But then again he only went crazy after I came into the picture…That’s why I kinda wonder if it would have been better if I had never been born….
Anyway, hope your dad can get a good place to live and I hope your mom calms down and doesn’t nag you about everything when they’re both apart. Wishing you the best now…