I feel like I’m never wanted. I was talking to this guy I’ve been going out with for a while and he asked me if we should be in an open relationship because he still wants to see me, but he really wants to go out with this girl who just broke up with her bf last week. We’ve been going out for a couple of months, and I thought maybe he would be the first to be actually interested in me and want to spend more time with me. But no, he’d rather go out with this one who just broke up w/ her bf (and most likely using this guy as a rebound) than actually see me. Then he goes on to say, “if we can’t find anyone else, then we’ll be together.” It’s like he’s settling for me, when there’s no one better available. I just don’t understand. But what do I know. All the guys I’ve gone out with turn out to be losers in the end.
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I am sorry to hear that… He is obviously not worth your time if you are not into that kind of relationship (believe it or not some actually are). I know it sounds cliche’ but you will find a better love sooner or later.
Fuck buddies. Tell him to go fuck himself
we never kissed, let alone fuck.
I meant he just wants to be fuck buddies. Or hell maybe that’s all he’s lookin for in ya, jus sex.
that’s all i’ve been hearing from guys who seem interested. It’s starting to make me believe that that’s all males ever really want. and that’s ok. I guess my purpose is to just be a cum dumpster.
You can’t be serious. Is it really that important to you to have a bf? Do you really actually like this guy? (Because he sounds like a disrespectful dick).
Better to be single than to put up with this kind of shit. Because if you go with this guy, he will continue to stomp all over your feelings because he knows he can get away with it.
And BTW, this actually makes me kinda angry… because I am a feminist… and I’ve had my fair share of men treating women this way because other women have let them get away with it. Don’t set a precedent! There are better guys out there and chances are you’re not finding them because you are underselling yourself to these loosers.