Well I get high everyday !!!. I’m only 13 so I should stop. Well my self-esteem is really low. Alot of people calls me pretty but i just don’t see it. The sexual abuse I went through really tore me down completely!!! Well when i get high , that’s when i be having sex but I be telling myself im going to quit doing the stuff  im doing but when I smoke I feel happy , laugh more, and feel more prettier. Well everyone please give me advice
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I see, well I know it may be hard to just quit like that, but you definitely should cut down on the weed. It is natural when being torn down Completely to go to these ways of coping because they are th easiest. While you may not feel like it, you have to push yourself to be more active and attempt to find other ways to cope that you enjoy! Maybe you even like a boy or have a crush, talk to them more. Have a close friend? Go to the mall, while you may not feel like it, doing the smallest things everyday with people you like and enjoy will do wonders! It seems like you have the mindset to quit all these, the best way to put it into action is as I said, find other things to do during that time, it’ll make it easier for yourself and harder to fall back on what you’re trying to stop! In my opinion I think you should stop sex completely, get to know a boy you like, and don’t go to sex for a long time, it’ll feel a lot better with time.
Thanks Crewde , You are so helpful. When my school found that note , I threw all my journals and everything away so my mom wouldn’t find out about everything. So i never write down my feelings. Im glad I found this site and you really know how to cheer somebody up. THANK YOU 🙂
Anytime :). Ya I know how that feels. Worrying about hiding feelings suck! Ya I am as well, this website is definitely my favorite. Haha well I’m glad :), and knowing I cheered you up cheers me up! Always know you can share anything on this site :).