I like this guy… a lot… but he only wants me sexually. and it hurts so much.. people say i should just move on and forget about him, but i can’t.. i even do these sexual things with him becuz i can’t lose him.. and i feel thats the only way to keep him in my life…
i want to keep him in my life…. i can’t lose him… not after all the other people who have left me.. i wouldn’t be able to handle if anyone else left me…..
-Morgan
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Well if he is only interested in you for sex that sounds rather shallow, so he is getting what he wants out of the relationship, but are you getting what you need from it? Are you really that serious about him anyway, weren’t you on here yesterday saying there were several guys you liked. So it seems like you have other options besides just this one guy. Well anyway whether it ends up being this guy or some other guy, hopefully you find one that feels the same way about you as you feel about them.
thank you. and yes i do like other guys. but he’s the only one who lives by me… the others live far away.
Well the fact that you like other guys shows that you don’t need just this one, that your mind is open to other options. So maybe you will meet someone you like that lives closer to you. Until then you can always keep trying to work on things with this one. Its tough though since you know he isn’t really committed to being with you, its always possible that might change in time..Try not to get your hopes up to high though.
thank you 🙂 and yes i will try
But you’re only 14.
just remember your own advice from your last post.
“Sometimes You Have To Try Not To Care, No Matter How Much You Do, Because Sometimes You Can Mean Nothing To Some One Who Means So Much To You.”
So you already know logically what you should do, but sometimes logic just can’t control emotion. Anyway good luck with everything I am going to go watch Alcatraz 🙂
thank you 🙂 and yes i know i should listen to own advice, but its very hard.