I’m suck and tired of guys says I look like a dude! I hate it! I’m a girl! And I think I look like a girl.
So what is I wear baggy clothes and don’t wear low shirts so show everyone my boobs!
So I have my hair up to my shoulders! That doesn’t make me a guy!
Like seriously I’m sick of this! Can u just see that I’m a female!?
-Morgan
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Your a girl. Fuck what people say honey, people say I look like a ******, people say I look like a girl, people say I look like a retard. I don’t care, because it doesn’t matter, and there is one reason why not to listen.
Why?
[It’s not true]
😀 I’ve been trying for a while now to not care about what people say. Starting not to care as much but I still do and I hate it.. And I’m glad I’m not alone
Yeah, of course you can’t completely not care, because you can ignore it but it will still get to you a little, but in the end as i said, it matters not what others think of you.
Because you are you, and your perfect.
No one is alone. Here, always and forever.
[SyKo]
Not this again Rawrimaturtle.
You know a lot of the girls I knew at school I didn’t fancy but they turned out to be stunners when they got older.
Remember beauty is only skin deep and we like rawrimaturtle not these plastic people who are not real. At least you are genuine and kind. People always like to put others down and its only cause they are insecure.
You can either be part of the pack, or put up with the consequences of being yourself.
It was almost the same with me, though I was mostly just ignored. But even when I was 20, an 8 year old questioned whether I was a guy or a girl. And I look like a female. That’s how ingrained these expectations are, that even little kids expected me to dress a certain way.
I mostly didn’t understand that society has certain expectations for gender roles. Now that I do understand, and actually dress more like a girl, what I wear doesn’t matter as much because I don’t care what most people think (and the good ones don’t care how I dress — but I didn’t know any of them in high school).
But if you really can’t ignore this, something that might help and won’t really go against being true to yourself, is to get a slightly different hairstyle. Like if you have a blunt haircut right now, just add a couple of layers, and get it shaped around your face.
Thank you duke. 🙂 and sivlerbirtch. Thanks I guess I could do something with my hair. I don’t really do anything with it. Just brush it and then I’m ready for the day
@ Rawrimaturtle
Whatever any of them jerks say don’t listen. I will make them feel pathetic but that will be easy because that’s exactly what the are. Do not worry at all about what you look like. There is a very famous saying and it is famous because it’s true beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You are young so don’t worry about guys. Just do the things you want.
Thank you duke 🙂
And sivlerbirch. A guy told me to grow out my hair. But I hate having to deal with long hair
It’s true, those guys are pathetic, but it’s also true that it’s hard not to let them bother you, especially because you are young. I’ve been there. If someone can make a small change that makes their life easier, but doesn’t change who they are, then why not?
Oh, and when I suggested a different haircut, it stops there — don’t spend time styling your hair in the mornings, lol. Huge waste of time.