Heh well then I can relate even more. I change to make others happy, let them walk over me if that’s what it takes…
I do think you need to put yourself higher on the importance list and try to make yourself happier…You too deserve happiness.
If you want to vent or rant or whatever about those reasons feel free to…
I don’t know who I am really either… I often wonder that. I don’t even know own self, what does that say?
So I think there is a path & process to start learning about ourselves, being who we want to be – not being who other’s want us to be. It’s time to work on yourself, and not for others just for YOU. So I hope you can find yourself, it may be bit by bit – but still…
Thank you…
I also feel like I’ve made too many mistakes & I got myself in such a deep whole, I can’t get out. I’m not trying to blame anyone, because I got myself to this point…but it d
You notice how all of us seem to blame ourselves? We put ourselves down…? Self-injure in a multitude of ways…
I think we have to realize we cannot always blame ourselves. And if we do, why and can we work on ourselves?
I don’t think you can ever make too many mistakes or be in a hole so deep you cannot dig your way out, nor do I think you are only going to be digging deeper…
I’ve made plenty of mistakes, and I hate myself for that. I hate me. And I’m hypocritical, but still – I think you can get out the hole you dug. -shrug-
Heh, that’s partially what I wrote in my note – don’t blame anyone else, just myself – I put myself here.
I finally figured out that I don’t really care about the negative people in my life. If I do have something to give to the people here, it’s don’t listen to them. You make the choices in your life that you think are right. I have never been able to, or I figured out too late, who I was and made allot of decisions in my life based on what other people thought. If I could go back now I would have been more honest about my feelings, I would have married someone who cared about me, I would have had children, I would have done things that I really wanted to do not what someone else thought I should. These are things that “I” can’t do again, but allot of younger people here have the opportunity to do right the first time. I hope some of you can see my mistakes and not make them, be who they are and find happiness.
I’d just like to say I’m glad Wraith said that… and I agree.
( doesn’t mean I give up hope on you Wraith, never know what could happen – and don’t you think there are still more decisions you can make for yourself still ahead? )
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Me too
I think A LOT of people here on SP( I included ) can relate to you…
Why are you feeling this way?
Lots of reasons….I’m always trying to make other people happy, when the only person I should be trying to make happy is myself..
Heh well then I can relate even more. I change to make others happy, let them walk over me if that’s what it takes…
I do think you need to put yourself higher on the importance list and try to make yourself happier…You too deserve happiness.
If you want to vent or rant or whatever about those reasons feel free to…
Count me in…
No matter what I do for myself or others, I just can’t seem to feel good about myself…
I’ve changed for other people. I feel like I’ve lost myself..
I don’t know who I am really either… I often wonder that. I don’t even know own self, what does that say?
So I think there is a path & process to start learning about ourselves, being who we want to be – not being who other’s want us to be. It’s time to work on yourself, and not for others just for YOU. So I hope you can find yourself, it may be bit by bit – but still…
I feel like I have made too many mistakes and will never be the person I want to be…
Thank you…
I also feel like I’ve made too many mistakes & I got myself in such a deep whole, I can’t get out. I’m not trying to blame anyone, because I got myself to this point…but it d
*it doesn’t help when people are doubtful & call you names..
You notice how all of us seem to blame ourselves? We put ourselves down…? Self-injure in a multitude of ways…
I think we have to realize we cannot always blame ourselves. And if we do, why and can we work on ourselves?
I don’t think you can ever make too many mistakes or be in a hole so deep you cannot dig your way out, nor do I think you are only going to be digging deeper…
I’ve made plenty of mistakes, and I hate myself for that. I hate me. And I’m hypocritical, but still – I think you can get out the hole you dug. -shrug-
Heh, that’s partially what I wrote in my note – don’t blame anyone else, just myself – I put myself here.
I finally figured out that I don’t really care about the negative people in my life. If I do have something to give to the people here, it’s don’t listen to them. You make the choices in your life that you think are right. I have never been able to, or I figured out too late, who I was and made allot of decisions in my life based on what other people thought. If I could go back now I would have been more honest about my feelings, I would have married someone who cared about me, I would have had children, I would have done things that I really wanted to do not what someone else thought I should. These are things that “I” can’t do again, but allot of younger people here have the opportunity to do right the first time. I hope some of you can see my mistakes and not make them, be who they are and find happiness.
I’d just like to say I’m glad Wraith said that… and I agree.
( doesn’t mean I give up hope on you Wraith, never know what could happen – and don’t you think there are still more decisions you can make for yourself still ahead? )
@itgirl- i relate and do the same- i try to make others happy but forget that i should be making me happy.
Yeah…I’m not happy, I’m too focused on making others around me happy.