Guys I’m confused. I don’t know what to do. Am I straight or am I “bisexual”? Like I know I would never go out with a girl, but I would do things with them. So does that make me “Bisexual” or do I just like to have “fun” ?
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Choose whichever label you are happy with. Neither is better or worse.
For that matter you might change your sexual interests in the future.
What gender of person you are interested in does not really matter in my philosophy.
I think what matters is that you don’t get forced, tricked or influenced into anything you don’t trully feel comfortable with. (And that you do not force trick or influence anyone else to do something they are not trully comfortable about.)
I honestly think it is up to your mind set and what your values and opinions are. I too have struggled with these confusing feelings. I would say that if you would like to have ‘fun’ with girls and boys then you are bisexual. Which is a great thing!
However you could also see it as just experimenting. You may finally realise that girls (or boys) don’t really do anything for you and then choose a definite side. A friend of mine was bisexual and went out with a few guys before she really understood that girls were the only ones for her.
Good luck with these feelings and i really do believe it is up to personal views and feelings.
Hope this helped 🙂
Well ive done things with girls and boys. I had a sexual fantacy that involved a girl, however I could never have feelings for a girl and so thats why I consider myself as straight. I fancy loads of boys who I wouldnt mind being with but never would I want to be with a girl. I think because im young I just wanted to experiment and I guess I discovered my sexuallity through that. Who says you have to put a lebel on it anyway? Also you will find alot of straight girls kiss there friends etc thats normal. I personaly think you can only really know if your straight, bisexual or watever if you actually have feelings for that person. Who cares if you fall in love with a guy or a girl. If it’s just for sex thats completely normal. Alot of straight women actually get turned on and masterbate over other women.
I hope this helps anyway, being confused is completely normal and you have plenty of time to discover who you are etc 🙂 x
Society labels are never “one size fits all” – don’t let society force you to choose a label the may not properly fit. Just be you … if it feels good do it … if it could hurt someone, don’t do it.
people are very complex beings … society doesn’t like “complex” – it’s too hard … society likes everything in a nice neat box … these labels can force you to make choices that you are uncomfortable with just to maintain the status/definition of the label … don’t fall into the trap … just be yourself for that moment and enjoy.
outside the box dawg
Thank you guys so much, you guys got me to think. I really appreciate it. You guys are amazing. xxx
love, naiomy
I wrote a post on here a while back called
the Queer
It describes the complex range of sexuality we experience as we grow.
These guys on her are right, interests change, you change, it’s all ok.
Peace
I am going to look it up now, thank you <3