i hate it when someone tries to take advantage of me… trying to get me to do things i can’t and don’t want to do… i’m so tired of it… it makes me feel worthless and unwanted… this time was so much worse… i can’t believe i trusted him…
;-;……you’ll find a guy worth trusting someday…in all honesty though everyone uses someone…its just that some of us are horrible and use people on purpose and we force these people to do things for us…idk im not helping probably..
I know this won’t help you much, but I know in your mind you feel attached to this person and you think you love him and all, but you really don’t, it’s just false hope that you think things will get better but you give in, you’re a stronger woman than that. Take pride and respect into being a woman, that you should be respected as well, we guys need to start respecting our women more instead of beating them and raping them and using them.
Well…this is all coming from a suicidal 17 year old…so don’t well..I hope this is good advice for you. I hope you find the strength to stand up and fight this abuse because no woman deserves it.
If someone has taken advantage of you, thats no reason for you to feel worthless and unwanted. We all get used, even me. It just means that you were too trusting and maybe naive.
Being used doesn’t make you worthless. It makes the user worthless. He has to use you to make himself feel like a man. If anything, you are his savior. He should be thanking you for allowing yourself to be used to benefit his ego.
Sometimes, though, it’s hard not to trust people when you are so desperately looking for someone to trust. (such as us folks with depression problems) You might need to just trust yourself for a while before trusting someone new.
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;-;……you’ll find a guy worth trusting someday…in all honesty though everyone uses someone…its just that some of us are horrible and use people on purpose and we force these people to do things for us…idk im not helping probably..
I know this won’t help you much, but I know in your mind you feel attached to this person and you think you love him and all, but you really don’t, it’s just false hope that you think things will get better but you give in, you’re a stronger woman than that. Take pride and respect into being a woman, that you should be respected as well, we guys need to start respecting our women more instead of beating them and raping them and using them.
Well…this is all coming from a suicidal 17 year old…so don’t well..I hope this is good advice for you. I hope you find the strength to stand up and fight this abuse because no woman deserves it.
If someone has taken advantage of you, thats no reason for you to feel worthless and unwanted. We all get used, even me. It just means that you were too trusting and maybe naive.
Being used doesn’t make you worthless. It makes the user worthless. He has to use you to make himself feel like a man. If anything, you are his savior. He should be thanking you for allowing yourself to be used to benefit his ego.
Sometimes, though, it’s hard not to trust people when you are so desperately looking for someone to trust. (such as us folks with depression problems) You might need to just trust yourself for a while before trusting someone new.
i really appreciate all the comments they have helped some
i actually was not attached to this person.. i had just met them…