i can’t get over the fact that my girlfriend now , lost her virginity to my arch enemy… it should be a whatever thing , like oh you can’t expect a girl to be a virgin kinda thing. But my not being able to get over it comes from the reason that she lost it to someone she chose over me . It’s like you hate someone and then your now girlfriend has you and him on the line and she chooses to date him instead.2 months pass and you already feel like secound best but now that guy you hate has something over you that you can’t ever get A V CARD something very important because you only lose that too one person. well iv’e been with my girlfriend for 1 yr and a half but i always get depressed on how she chose someone else over me . … if anyone has good tips on how to get over it please help:c
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I don’t quite ‘get’ this Rob. You’re with your girlfriend now, but you can’t get over that she chose him in the past, but you say she’s got him and you ‘on a line’. Sounds like you and your gf got some issues, above and beyond the matter of who she ‘gave’ her virginity to.
I hope this isn’t making you feel suicidal? Problems in love happen to loads of ppl your age (well I’m assuming you’re young). Is there other stuff you haven’t mentioned causing you to feel down? Zx
obviouslly issues . and no not suicidal im not dumb. and yeah i know its not the worst thing that can happen to me . but it something that i do feel bad over and something i can’t get out of my head. i just wish i knew how to not think about it . so i can have a healthy relationship