so i told my friend i wasn’t happy and she started to try to preach to me… i know everything she is saying and some of i believe to be true… but seriously… wrong timing. especially when she is one of the few people i can sort of talk to about how i feel… and she knows that when i say that i’m not happy that there really is more to it than just being unhappy.
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Maybe she just didn’t know what else to do. Maybe she thought she was helping and maybe she thought if she told you these things out loud you’d listen more. She may not have been right in timing but at least she tried. So be happy she is still there. Still a friend. And friends really can’t read minds. maybe you just need to let her know that you just need someone to be there. Tell her that you just wish she would listen. If she really is a friend and just wants to help she will even if it takes some time :/
she says that trying to help me makes her feel and that she can’t really help me