My dad commited suicide. Everybody hates me , im ovisly a slut , by being raped 3 times. People hurt me all the time , YOU WANT ME TO LET THEM KEEP DOING THIS WELL I DONT FML IM DONE , ITS OVER,
first – i dont know you. i really dont know squat about you but i wanna argue with the concept of meeting people or codendency problems.
Is it really so bad that people here seem to be drawn to each other?? For an “emotionally charged” person to be drawn to a “mentally unstable”…. I say that it could be a GREAT thing.
Most of us see shrinks. We spend a mountain of cash for no real / tangible results. They may mean well and I have no doubt they are highly educated and are probably ALL smarter that myself. BUT, I do not think that the “normals” can really, really, REALLY understand us. I do not think a “stable” person can ever truly grasp the desperation that we feel…. those of us who have done SINCERE suicide attempts. Those who are deeeeeeep into depression.
BUT – us nut jobs (my fun-phrase) do “get” each other. It is something that we all have that deeply connects us that the normals will never have.
I know there are dangers in co-dependancy. I know that. There are dangers in a lot of things. There are dangers in driving down the road or eating at McD. BUT, there is also the chance that working as a team – two people can connect and survive an unsurvivable world.
Hey useless me….you are entitled to your opinion. How old are you btw and how many long term co dependent relationships have you been in? Just curious.
Truthfully…hurting people are always in a relationship of ONE…others are merely a distraction from our own pain…but again…it is only my opinion. Ummm…maybe I can’t save myself…but I can save THEM…hahaha…doesn’t work.
This is not to say that it NEVER works…but more often than not things just get worse…watch the online relationships here and watch the emotional manipulation that goes on and then I would love to debate this further…not argue…debate …if you would like.
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What? …geesh. Some folks here like to use SP as a hook-up site. Bleh.
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You’ve really been missing out
Who? Me?
Who else
That’s part of the reason I probly wnt be alive in a couple of days,
meeting an emotionally unstable guy on a sight for emotionally (and mentally) unstable people isnt a good idea, i figured that out the hard way
Could’ve been directed at brokenheart15.
@brokenheart15: what do you mean?
*Sigh* Never mind…
@DukeofMarmalade: I know who you are but I don’t think you realize who I am. Adios ol’ amigo~
I know exactly who you are. No one else writes like that
leaving so soon? I hope you are ok
Why do you always do that?
Guys are the reason im going to kill myself by Saturday
sorry
appolagies but thats a shit reason if ur going to comitt suicide give us a better reason
@dom that wasnt lucy4 (or something close) was it?
My dad commited suicide. Everybody hates me , im ovisly a slut , by being raped 3 times. People hurt me all the time , YOU WANT ME TO LET THEM KEEP DOING THIS WELL I DONT FML IM DONE , ITS OVER,
I should have said, my comments were directed at Umbra_Uroboros. SP’s very own Scarlet Pimpernel.
@ Procel, no, it was an old friend.
It dnt matter no one cares bt me so ima go see my dad . Bye.
Hmmm, let me ponder this rediculously difficult situation whilst I enjoy a tasty taco.
Anyone know how to change my profile image?
ok. ummm where to start here…..
first – i dont know you. i really dont know squat about you but i wanna argue with the concept of meeting people or codendency problems.
Is it really so bad that people here seem to be drawn to each other?? For an “emotionally charged” person to be drawn to a “mentally unstable”…. I say that it could be a GREAT thing.
Most of us see shrinks. We spend a mountain of cash for no real / tangible results. They may mean well and I have no doubt they are highly educated and are probably ALL smarter that myself. BUT, I do not think that the “normals” can really, really, REALLY understand us. I do not think a “stable” person can ever truly grasp the desperation that we feel…. those of us who have done SINCERE suicide attempts. Those who are deeeeeeep into depression.
BUT – us nut jobs (my fun-phrase) do “get” each other. It is something that we all have that deeply connects us that the normals will never have.
I know there are dangers in co-dependancy. I know that. There are dangers in a lot of things. There are dangers in driving down the road or eating at McD. BUT, there is also the chance that working as a team – two people can connect and survive an unsurvivable world.
JMO.
Hey useless me….you are entitled to your opinion. How old are you btw and how many long term co dependent relationships have you been in? Just curious.
Truthfully…hurting people are always in a relationship of ONE…others are merely a distraction from our own pain…but again…it is only my opinion. Ummm…maybe I can’t save myself…but I can save THEM…hahaha…doesn’t work.
This is not to say that it NEVER works…but more often than not things just get worse…watch the online relationships here and watch the emotional manipulation that goes on and then I would love to debate this further…not argue…debate …if you would like.
Peace
Ama
i am OLLLLLD. probably oldest or damn near oldest here. BUt -thankfully my days ARE numbered – so i gonna win this race.
as for your debate thing. i appreciate the offer, but i am just emotionally exhausted and it is 9:37am and it is TIME TO GET MAJORLY drunk!!!
“i aint gonna jump no more no more, i aint gonna jump no more – hi ho way to go, i aint gonna jump no more no more. ”
time to ride……. cya on the other side.