okayy so..ive been dealing with this guy for over a year now..im in love with him but not sure how to get over him..heres the story..i was with him for about 9 months maybe a lil more n then we split up well with all my other boyfriends we break up and dont talk anymore..well me and this guy im hooked on talk all the time i see him everyday at school..we still screw around n shit even though he has a girl friend..how do i let go and move on..?..like i dont want to let him slip out of my life kuz i love him..i want him around hes the only thing in this world that keeps me happy..if i lose him i lose my mind and life..so what do i do?..should i keep talking to him to keep my self safe or do i risk it and stop talking to him??..
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You must remember that you decide what makes you happy, and not this guy’s proximity to you. Also, you broke up for a good reason. The best way to ‘let him go’ is to make a habit of NOT screwing around with him for at least 30 days straight. Then you can begin to move on. Yes, I am typing from experience.
I can’t believe you would give a guy this much power over you. Sex is great, and love is great too… but, infatuation is all this sounds like.
Infatuation is a phase. I know it doesn’t feel like one, but it is.
Okay, yeah i get that but i dont want him completely out of my life i still wana be friends wit him..i mean im in love wit this guy..but i cant be stickin around to get hurt anymore..you guys get wut im sayin?…
And not to mention at the moment shits kinna okay with us..i left town for like 10 days to go hunting and camping and came back to him telling me he missed me..dont really know what to do now..him and his girlfriend broke up while i was gone so hes kinda runnin back to me..