I get upset if nobody understands me, but I get irritated when they try to understand. Because they never get it right. They only mean well. So the question is, do I want their help? I confuse the shit out of myself.
Yes you DO want help. 🙂 and we’re all willing to help you!
Thing is, though, to talk. The more you talk, the more they understand. Find a person who doesn’t cut you off when you talk and then talk out all of your feelings. 😀
I’m note sure if you really do want their help. You should definitely talk about things, but people have a nasty habit of analyzing you and trying to work out what is wrong and how you can fix it (I probably do it too). They mean well sure but you need to work things out for yourself, otherwise you become rigid and can’t deal with life.
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Yes you DO want help. 🙂 and we’re all willing to help you!
Thing is, though, to talk. The more you talk, the more they understand. Find a person who doesn’t cut you off when you talk and then talk out all of your feelings. 😀
yes you do, you might not think you do but you do. trust me once you get it it makes a world of a difference
I’m note sure if you really do want their help. You should definitely talk about things, but people have a nasty habit of analyzing you and trying to work out what is wrong and how you can fix it (I probably do it too). They mean well sure but you need to work things out for yourself, otherwise you become rigid and can’t deal with life.