He is so precious to me and yet that is not enough to get him back. I am in love with him but he is not in love with me. I will die, this pain is too much for me. I will die with all the love i have for him.
it sure sounds pretty awful for you right now. I am so sorry you feel this terrible. Losing love is so damned hard. I presume you are a female. In that, know it is very common for we women to experience love on a different – more intense plane. Because of that, breaking up is that much more rough on us.
I know what you say is true. The pain makes you want to die. But please consider that your destiny is not tied to someone who left you.
You have value. You are wanted. Your future love in life won’t get to know the amazingly loving person you are if you die because someone hurt you.
Maybe consider ? that since you love this man so much, if you end your life by suicide, you are punishing him. Is that what you really feel is right? Or are you wanting to escape the loss?
We cannot make others fall in love with us or stay. It is not free will. Please do not leave him or this world because of it.
hey, he’s not worth your time. think of it like this, in the end, love is just a selfish game where we’re all trying to find someone right for us. we all have to find someone that we think is worthy of us in some sense, and if he doesn’t reciprocate, then it’s not your fault. nothing’s wrong with you. don’t worry about it, find little things to be happy about and go out and live! DON”T BASE YOUR HAPPINESS ON SOMEONE ELSE.
I don’t have a problem with your suicide punishing this guy that broke your heart. I also think it’s too simplistic to say “Don’t base your happiness on someone else”. A great deal of my happiness comes from just four people. Those four people mean more to me than the rest of this universe combined. If I ever lose them I will fucking kill myself. I do wonder if this particular guy is really worth it though. I’m guessing not. I think that there is someone else that could take it place. Give it time. They say time heals all wounds. I don’t fully believe that but there is a lot of truth to it. Good luck.
Yeah, I know what you mean. I spent two years obsessing with a girl who wasn’t even willing to recognize my existence. All I can remember is many a night of crying. Wanna know what it all amounted to? Nothing. You too are gonna figure it out sooner or later. whoever that guy is, he’s not worth it. All you’re gonna get from him is despair.
I thought i didnt love him, therefore i let him go. After our break up i realized that i cant live without him. That i love him dearly, everytime i felt him slipping from me when we were together id ask him not to give up on us, but i did. I gave up on us. I let it all go. I love him. My life has no meaning if its without him. He wouldnt care if im gone anyway, itd just be another problem gone. I just want to end this pain. I want to end it all, i want to die. I dint know what to do or how to heal unless i have him. He says im being selfish but im not! Im not! I just want us to be happy together! I will kill myself because he doesnt love me back!
please don’t… it’s really not worth it, i promise. he cares about you, i think he’s just mad that you broke up with him. he would care if you died because that’s why he got mad in the first place! please, at least give it some time, because there are people who love you who will be sad that you are not around.
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it sure sounds pretty awful for you right now. I am so sorry you feel this terrible. Losing love is so damned hard. I presume you are a female. In that, know it is very common for we women to experience love on a different – more intense plane. Because of that, breaking up is that much more rough on us.
I know what you say is true. The pain makes you want to die. But please consider that your destiny is not tied to someone who left you.
You have value. You are wanted. Your future love in life won’t get to know the amazingly loving person you are if you die because someone hurt you.
Maybe consider ? that since you love this man so much, if you end your life by suicide, you are punishing him. Is that what you really feel is right? Or are you wanting to escape the loss?
We cannot make others fall in love with us or stay. It is not free will. Please do not leave him or this world because of it.
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hey, he’s not worth your time. think of it like this, in the end, love is just a selfish game where we’re all trying to find someone right for us. we all have to find someone that we think is worthy of us in some sense, and if he doesn’t reciprocate, then it’s not your fault. nothing’s wrong with you. don’t worry about it, find little things to be happy about and go out and live! DON”T BASE YOUR HAPPINESS ON SOMEONE ELSE.
Miss, you’ll get through this, I promise.
Ever want to talk, feel free to explain your feelings. It’s brl.cents@gmail.com
I don’t have a problem with your suicide punishing this guy that broke your heart. I also think it’s too simplistic to say “Don’t base your happiness on someone else”. A great deal of my happiness comes from just four people. Those four people mean more to me than the rest of this universe combined. If I ever lose them I will fucking kill myself. I do wonder if this particular guy is really worth it though. I’m guessing not. I think that there is someone else that could take it place. Give it time. They say time heals all wounds. I don’t fully believe that but there is a lot of truth to it. Good luck.
Yeah, I know what you mean. I spent two years obsessing with a girl who wasn’t even willing to recognize my existence. All I can remember is many a night of crying. Wanna know what it all amounted to? Nothing. You too are gonna figure it out sooner or later. whoever that guy is, he’s not worth it. All you’re gonna get from him is despair.
yeah, but there are people who still love you and who you can hold on to… why kill yourself because there is a guy who doesn’t love you back?
I thought i didnt love him, therefore i let him go. After our break up i realized that i cant live without him. That i love him dearly, everytime i felt him slipping from me when we were together id ask him not to give up on us, but i did. I gave up on us. I let it all go. I love him. My life has no meaning if its without him. He wouldnt care if im gone anyway, itd just be another problem gone. I just want to end this pain. I want to end it all, i want to die. I dint know what to do or how to heal unless i have him. He says im being selfish but im not! Im not! I just want us to be happy together! I will kill myself because he doesnt love me back!
please don’t… it’s really not worth it, i promise. he cares about you, i think he’s just mad that you broke up with him. he would care if you died because that’s why he got mad in the first place! please, at least give it some time, because there are people who love you who will be sad that you are not around.