I just came home from going out with friends. Â Instead of my husband saying nice to see you, he calls me fat….the fattest woman he ever saw today and that I am an embarrassment. Â I am not sure I can do this anymore…I am sick of the most negative person in my life being my husband. Â I wish I can escape, but again he keeps on telling me I am too stupid to get a job. Â He’s right. I tried, I can’t. Â I am stuck and don’t have any place to go anymore. Â I just wish I was not such a coward. Â I would love to end it all and just kill myself. Â Every night I go to sleep and just hope I don’t wake up.
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Please dont let him get you down like that. Anyone is capable of getting a job, and even if you are fat? whats wrong with fat? there are a lot of ‘fat’ people put there, be proud of your body. And as for your husband, honey – dont give up on looking for a job and save etc, and leave him. he doesnt deserve to have you and you dont deserve to be feeling like this. be strong please!
If you’re not happy with the way that you look, you could always join a gym and start working out. Then when you feel better about yourself, you will find a good job and prove to your husband that he is wrong about you.
i dont think any human has the right to make us unhappy but the right person can make you happier than happy
be strong
OMFG! Why the hell would some dickhead ssay things like that to you! He’s more of a coward than you are then, since you’re pretty strong for keeping yourself distracted somehow. And being fat doesn’t make you dumb or uneducated anyway, he has no idea.
Don’t worry though, my dumb grandfather carries on about how fat I’ll get, so I laugh at him. Everyone acts differently with similar humiliating situations though, so it’s ok for you to react by crying, laughing, etc. Maybe just don’t break the law… JK but seriously, your hubby knows better than to treat you like shit. I’m single, don’t have a job, have a severe visual impairment. I’m not that smart but I’m still alive and doing apparently very well according to most of my family, so maybe I’m doing something right. Just keep plodding along if you can, no one has the right to make you do anything, other than to suggest help. The only thing is, as much as you think your hubby is right about you being fat, he is totally friggen wrong about how he’s treating you, I don’t care what anyone says. What he’s doing should be a crime, and I think actually it kind of is. Oh well I’m gonna get going now before this comment gets too long… Please take care, whatever you do.
He is emotionally abusive. Unless he is willing to confront that, I would go into a safe house and rebuild my self esteem and work on becoming employable. It will continue to escalate. It’s just how it goes with that sort of thing.
Be safe. Be well. Find hope.